I know there are probably A LOT of questions like this, but just deal with it. I REALLY like this guy, but I am not going to say his name. He is 18 and I am 13. And no, he is not the type of guy that would "use" you or anything. I met him through church and he lives in my neighborhood. Today we both rode together to youth group and we talked a little bit. I don't think that means much, though, because everybody talks to each other...whatever...but do you think I will EVER have c chance with him?
2007-03-04 12:46:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't exactly mean will I have a chance with him RIGHT NOW, but will I even have a chance with him later on in life? This is just bothering me if I will or not. I was just curious.
2007-03-04 12:55:17 · update #1
You are awefully young, and that is a big age difference.. However, the whole age thing doesnt bother me.... It is probably a casual conversation... again, you are too young... the only advice i have for you is to not to rush things, take life easy.. you are young, you have plenty of time to experience things.... Be careful, and have fun with ur childhood..... Good luck and God bless... Ciao
2007-03-04 12:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by alohaforever16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well why not? There is a very hot girl that has been a friend of the family, and has known me since I was 12, and she was 19. So pretty much always seen me as a kid. About a month after my 18th birthday, I bumped into her in a bar, and it was very much the sort of "Aww are you here with all your little friends?" sorta conversation! =/ Really annoying, as I really had the hots for her!
So anyway I missed the train that night, and got stuck, and she kindly offered me her spare room. Well when I walked into that house she saw me as the same little boy she'd always known.
I guess the next morning she had a pretty diffrent opinion after waking up naked in my arms, I quite often go to spend the night now =P
So yeah, tis possible. And you should try being more polite when asking a question.
2007-03-08 19:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he's 25, and youre 20, the age difference wont be much at all, but right now its a life time. He's an adult, you're barely a teenager. If he dated you he'd risk jail time, a permanent record as a sex offender, not to mention being ridiculed by his peers. You'll either have to wait 5 or 6 years..or find someone closer to your age. if he's a good person like you say....then he probably doesnt see you that way. Im sorry but a good man wouldnt have the hots for a child. No offense, but according to the law, youre still a child.
2007-03-04 20:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by I love you when you dont suck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes maybe when u get 17 and he's 22.Otherwise I'm sorry but no..He's in a different stage of life from u.If he is attracked to u then u should be worried.This is because 18 yr olds shouldn't be at the same level as 13. Good luck hon.
2007-03-04 20:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, considering that he is probably in college and you are in middle school, chances aren't looking so good, are they? He is way more mature than you and he probably will be since there is a five year age difference. Why not go for somebody your own age? Since you are probably just like his little sister to him, be happy with that much. He most likely doesn't think of you like "that" and has other girls his own age in mind. Don't take it personally. It's just that he's 18 and you're 13.
2007-03-04 20:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by The Prep 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right at this time no. He is an adult and you are still a minor so if he touches you he can go to goal. If you like this guy so much (and i think you just have a crush on him) you will only stay a friend to him. If in 5 years you and him are still in the same area together and neither of you dating them maybe.
2007-03-04 20:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by luckylovelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost the same happend to me im 13 and i had a crush on a 17 year old. you might have a chance you have to say the right things to him to make him like you. I hope this helps gurl!!!!!!
2007-03-04 20:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by bestsaxplaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should get to know him better first, you know be friends and stuff then maybe later with time you guys will become something else, the fact that you met him in church is a good thing, maybe its God s plans you know. be patient
2007-03-04 20:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by alextrevayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the age difference i do not thinkm you ahve a chance.Sorry.You should try other 13 year olds.
2007-03-04 20:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually guys 18yrs of age want girls around that same age. sure he is kind to you but probably he feels for you like a little sister.
2007-03-04 20:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋