Hi, i want to know if the man that i am with right now, will he be the man that i marry and spend my life with

Question

i have been with him for fourteen days so far. but have known him for 9 months. i was born in fort worth texas, on october 3, 1991. we have talked about our future, about children, and about marriage. i want to know for sure that he is the one that will always be there, if he's the one that will be my groom if and when i marry, who will stay faithful to me and who will grow old with me till the day we die....our start happened when i was being there for him with his problems, with his exgirlfriend. she wasnt treating him right. She barely had anytime for him and called him every 2 days. when she met him she says she fell in love with him and then just tried to change him in every aspect. he says that she wasnt the girl that he met. Now we're together and we're happy. but we want to be happy together for the rest of our lives. We plan to marry june 18th 2010. i want to know if we'll even make that far and if by then if we'll still be happy and if he will be as faithful as i am gonna be

Answer 1

You have known him for 9 months. Imagine yourself being with him for the rest of your life! If you can't, then the relationship will not make it. Not saying it is impossible, but if you are worried now then maybe there is a reason. Be open with him and share your feelings, this is the only way you will be able to have a lasting and honest relationship. 2010 is a while from now and you can decide whether to marry him or not by then. If you dont marry him though, its okay. Good luck!

Answer 2

Whoa! Slow down! Do you really want your courtship to go so fast? It is impossible to say what will be for sure at any point in time. Why can't you just enjoy being with him now and let everything happen naturally? I know you want to be happy together for the rest of your lives, but that life happens one day at a time. Enjoy loving him now, not just in the future.

p.s. Here is a clue, you will know that he is the right person for you when you don't have to ask random people online.

Answer 3

Talk about closed-minded people. Men become more sexual as they get older and they pretty much have moved beyond the timid stage of sex. And older woman in regards to sex is considered "accomplished" because she has performed well into a senior level where she becomes less "useful" and therefore less attractive at the "instinct" level. Keep in mind that I am not speaking about pleasure. I am speaking about the most fundamental purpose of sex. They become overshadowed by younger women because of the purity and "readiness" to get pregnant many times. It's perfectly logical that a younger woman is 1000% more sexually attractive than an older woman. It doesn't mean that an older woman is worthless. It's nothing more than a pre-programmed process of nature to ensure the continuation of life on the planet. It's too bad that the corruption of ideologies have people working against the forces of nature. Pure ignorance.

Answer 4

I'm a couple of months older than you and i believe in true love. but to be honest with you i don't think you should be planing you wedding just now you've only known him for 9 months and just started dating. you should really get to know him first before you make a decision about getting married . and there are other guys you'll probably feel that way about. take your time about decisions you make because they can affect your future.

Answer 5

this is not a question for anyone on yahoo answers to respond to. For one, no one can tell the future, no one not even you will know or can tell you that all these things, your love and friendship needs to grow and change and become more than what it is now. You need to get closer, experience more with him. Only you will know and only time will tell. You can hope and wish and try, but you won't be able to have answers to these questions

Answer 6

you are sixteen. i know it's really easy to think about marriage and babies and weddings and how awesome it will all be, but that's extremely common for 1) first relationships and 2) serious relationships at your age.

try to focus on the here and now of your relationship instead of worrying if you will be together forever. go sightseeing; drive to the next town over and experience something new together; go to a park; make dinner together for your families. focus on learning and growing together and figuring out who you are as individuals.

you guys have only been going out for two weeks and you have already set a wedding date. what about graduation? isn't that something to look forward to? enjoy life.

Answer 7

I met my husband when I was 15. We dated for awhile and then he got back with his ex. I started dating someone else and two years later we got back together. We dated 5 years and have been married for 5 months now. I think someday you could marry him, but don't rush. Make sure you do the things you want to before you get married. I would advise that you go out with your friends and that he goes out with his friends, I think it's just as important to have your lives seperate as it is together. He might go back to his ex, but if you wait you might get to be his wife.

Answer 8

Don't depend on horoscopes..make your own. No one here can know the answer to your question more than you and your partner. Stop worrying so much and enjoy the relationship you are in. Only time will prove if your partner deserves your trust.

Answer 9

There's no way for me to know. These are questions better discussed with him. I do have to say that your worry is a little intense for the amount of time you've been with him. There's a very old saying: "You create that which you fear". Ease up and enjoy your time with him.

Answer 10

noone knows for sure if they are marrying the right person. just be sure you are marrying him for the right reason and remember a marrage will only work if both of you want it to. i should know im on my 42nd year with the same guy, and believe me it takes two to make it work. if you are not going to be married for three more years, time will tell.