What do you think of?

Question

a 25 year old guy who works part-time, not college-educated, lives at home with his parents, and is is in a long-distance relationship

Answer 1

a guy who doesnt have a life and isnt worth it for someone as a good as you

Answer 2

The young man has nothing even close to resembling a committed life. No real job, no real home of his own, no real education---nothing that requires a committment---oh it's all too much trouble. Sounds like his family has allowed him to develop the behavior--and they allow it to persisit. That is why he is in a long distance relationship---doesn't have to try when the mate is far away and unavailable-----he doesn't have to work at a relationship the way normal people do--he can just sit home in his dirty underwear, eating potatoe chips, drinking cheap beer and talkin on a computer--to a mate that doesn't know or accept what this slob really is---a lazy, unreliable, silly, immature boy. Is this a friend of yours??? better find some new guy to associate with--you probably are just as guilty of doing stuff for him, instead of telling him to do it himself. Worse yet, he probably gets money from mommy for marijuana, turning his brain to mush. Are you his supposed long distance girlfriend??? Can't you get a better guy?? What do you see in him??? Unless you like playing mommy, you will only have a lifetime of misery with this man. Say goodbye and get a nice ,normal, respectful, hard working MAN. Good luck...bye bye

Answer 3

dont think that he would be much of a supporter of a family if it got to that point in the future. What kind of future does he have planned?

He doesn't have to be college educated, as long as he's common-sense or street smart.

Part time? Sounds lazy.

Lives with his parents at 25, think its time to start thinking of his own place, unless he has family issues or is needed at home, know what I mean?

Long distance, well hopefully his part time job will give him enough money to call his honey every night, otherwise I can't see that relationship lasting too long.

Answer 4

i think that he needs to do something else with his life...if he is not in college, he should not be working part time or living with his parents. he should have a full time job so that he can pay for his own place to stay...as long as he got his head on straight and has goals which it doesnt seem as if... his college education doesnt really matter..but in this situation it does...and about the long distance relationship if he can be in one thats good for him because those are the hardest...

Answer 5

Well, he needs to find a full time job, needs to learn a trade and get some sort of education to better himself. As for the long distance relationship....doesn't sound like this guy know how to commit to anything in his life. Perhaps he is unmotivated and lazy. Does he smoke pot?

Answer 6

Since that's the sum total of his life: Not much. Literally, there's not much to think of or think about.

He has a right to this life, if others cooperate:

His girlfriend--if that's where/how she wants her life to go also,

His parents--if that's what they expect, all they expect, from their son,

His boss--who only needs/wants him part-time and decides that his work effort/contribution for the pay given is good enough,

The phone company--When they send the bill and it gets paid.

I'm not saying this necessarily as a put down, but just as a fact. Others may easily see this as a wasted life and I'd be hard pressed to disagree.

But, the fact remains that it is HIS life and he does get to choose how he "does" his life.

Personally, I always vote for people having more, doing more with their life. A

mbition and effort are not dirty words--and I am not talking at all about greed here. I'm talking about living, loving, and working to the fullest of YOUR potential. Contributing to improvement of your life and the lives of others to the fullest of your potential.

And what does he have to show for his life?

Not much.

Answer 7

I've heard of worse, but at least he's working. I would say it's not an ideal situation for him to be in but if he can and wants to get his act together, perhaps he has potential to be more than this.

Answer 8

wow. the answers before me were so shallow. i dont know what to make of this man because i do not know his situation. you cast him in a negative light. you need to write downa piece of paper the good and the bad and then you be the judge of what is or is not good. follow your first instinct 99% of the time it is right.

Answer 9

this guy is not right--well for normal styles i mean

Answer 10

a guy you shouldnt be dealing w/