We had a relationship that started out beautiful as they all do,but it stared going down hill do to things beyond our control,distance and obstacles,so even though I love him like crazy ,I tried to walk away in a decent respectful way....because it was just getting too painful.......He told a few lies to try not to hurt me....I don't want to be lied to so I tried to be understanding and realize it's the situation ,not him........but now I'm getting hateful e-mail,he is posting lies and hateful/hurtful stuff on answers,just because I didn't want to be hurt any more,I still love him and have great memories.Why is he turning so ugly when just yesterday he loved me ?>>>
2007-03-04 12:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is bitter and hurting - his ranting is a way to vent his frustration.
If you can't resolve it and it's best for you to split, don't antagonise yourself further by observing his rantings - switch off from it. Cry, get it out of your system focus on your reasons for breaking up in the first place and really decide if you are doing it because you feel you should or because you know that it is thr right thing for you, and that it's best to move on - finally, don't be too hard on yourself you are mourning a loss after all, it always hurts when we say goodbye to someone we give a piece of our hearts too, but it won't be the first time nor the last. Keep strong and look to yourself. Not him.
2007-03-04 12:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lady B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To ask what is the matter with someone else is an easy question. To delegate the wrongdoings of a whole group against one person, is yet another. Is it him or you? Is it you or him? Is love really possible? After one grasps the true meaning of love....it becomes difficult to fathom that beauty ever occurring in her/his life. Life is a beach. What's on a beach? Sand....What do people make in the yard to imitate a beach? A sand box. Where do neighborhood felines take dumps when no kitty box is in sight? In a nutshell...if you intend to walk on the beach barefoot, or play in the sandbox...you have to learn to stay away from the clumps. LOL ....He didn't turn ugly...He was just ugly all along....too many clumps encountered sydrome.
2007-03-08 16:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he can't stand the thought of losing you and is trying to make you hurt as bad as he hurts. He is also tyrying to make it so you will not want any other guy.
2007-03-04 20:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by savannah h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short to put up with s*it like that. just forget about him and move on. there are plenty of other guys out there would never do anything like that.
2007-03-04 20:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by sushiking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is like that then dont pay attention to any of his insults and such. he is being a jerk and is trying to get attention so dont give attention to him!. go to your friends for more comfort and advice. hope this helps!
2007-03-04 20:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the big girl and dont comment on the crap he is talking
2007-03-04 20:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by toophatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe those Emails r from someone eles>>>>>>>Shes playing you>>>. or hes playing you....................
2007-03-04 20:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋