Me and my girlfriend have been living together for 2 weeks, and it has been nothing but fighting. My gf has a roommate also. So, that means our fighting is bothering the roommate also.We've been together on and off for 1yr and 6months before the move in. How long should I stay until I move out.
2007-03-04 12:24:03 · 12 answers · asked by its_whatever11 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have two choices.
1. If you move out, you WILL lose her forever. You have already shown her that you can't be lived with. And don't think that you have a chance at staying together if you move out. She WILL dump you the day after you move out. Until then, she will probably be quite nice about it.
2. Talk to her. DO NOT argue, no matter what. Listen to what she has to say and consider it carefully. If you don't feel that she is being reasonable, then you can still leave.
Just remember, this is the decision that will make or break your relationship.
Do you want to keep her?
2007-03-04 12:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Well most people fight more when they first move in together, but if you have been on and off and you have only been together for a year and a half then maybe moving in together wasn't the best option. Think about if it was a hastey discission. Living together is a BIG step, you need to be sure you can stay together w/o living together before you try moving in.
2007-03-04 12:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you guys should be living together in the first place, especially if she has someone else in the house! Living together is a lot of work and effort because its 2 different lives trying to make one and that is not easy. I say u guys wait until u get married and get your OWN place without anyone else in the way. and you guys should also work on the things that you fight about , its not good to be in a relationship where you fight all the time. Work those things out and work on different areas of your relationship before you decide on living together!
2007-03-04 12:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the moving in is just making issues you had before worse. If you are fighting on a daily basis, you seriously need to think about ending it or "taking a break." Which of course would mean you would have to move out.
2007-03-04 12:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a roommate in the house, do you really think you're living together?
Try being a couple, without the extras. Living with anyone is tough enough.
Give it a shot with just you and her. Neither of you can be comfortable with someone else in your space.
The roommate may be a silent problem, and neither of you are ready to admit it.
Just an opinion.
2007-03-04 12:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by weazle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Those things that you are fighting about are things you should have discussed before the move in. Remember this the next time.
Also remember that leaving the cap on or off the toothpaste can be a divorce issue.
2007-03-04 12:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that answer lies with you. If your not happy then move out now. If you want to try to make it work still cause you love the girl your with or what ever then stay. the answer truly does lie with you though. Only you know what is right for you. So think about it and then you will know your decision. Good luck!
2007-03-04 12:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be an indication of things to come. Imagine if you were married...I would move out right away and continue to date, but as far as a long term engagement and marriage, I would have second thoughts. Maybe you are just not compatible.
2007-03-04 12:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance proposed to me the day we moved in together. It replaced right into a ask your self that it replaced into that day, yet as quickly as we had desperate to go in together (while i replaced into finished me bachelors degree) we the two knew we ought to get engaged and then married interior of here few years. So now we live together and are engaged, and could be getting married in a twelve months. while my sister moved in along with her lady chum they never fairly spoke of having married. They had to be a satisfied co-habitating couple, and that they had to be together consistently. yet to them getting married wasn't a call for for that form of happiness. and that i variety of accept as true with them. residing together as a pair without being married isn't a bad subject. that's a discovering subject, and a few human beings choose to enhance together as a pair on the same time as residing together. as quickly as my sister and her lady chum desperate to get married they have been engaged (good sized rocks on arms) and had the ceremony interior of 8 months of determining. i do no longer think of there's a incorrect or real order, as long as actual everyone seems to be happy with the region and that's a healthful relationship. If the two events choose to get married it is going to ensue (ultimately), yet while women are shifting in with a guy and he or she assumes that's splendid as much as engagement, and he would not choose to get married for 5 or 10 years (or ever) it isn't the shifting in together that "ruins" the relationship/destiny marriage. that's the lack of ability of verbal substitute and common floor the couple shares. If a pair is satisfied, who's anybody to choose?
2016-10-02 09:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday.
2007-03-04 12:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ari A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋