im only 11 and i want one what do i do???
2007-03-04 12:15:36 · 16 answers · asked by olivia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your never too younge to start "dating" you just have to take it slow and no kissing till your 13 or 14. I think you shouldn't have a boyfriend untill your a teen (13) but you can start to have a crush on a boy for now and just wait, you'll be happy you did! Best of luck!
2007-03-04 12:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by T.G.I.F.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know you want a boyfriend but you are soo young. Having one is a lot of work and is more than just holding hands and saying cute things. Guard your heart while you can because everytime you get your heart broken by one it brings baggage into your life and drags with you to the other guy and the next one and the next one until you deal with it.
by the time your 20 you are going to look back and say: why did i waste my time with all those guys that i dont even talk to anymore.
I know u want a boyfriend but if you could guard yourself and wait til you are a little bit older at least in high school then i think that will be a great idea. And also please dont give your virginity to the first guy that tells you that he loves you, that is something so special that you should give to the man that is giong to spend the rest of his life with you. And always remember if a man wait for you and respects your decisions then he really cares for you. never allow a man to miss treat you or disrespect you because your worth more than that, and never settle to be treated no less than a princess!
2007-03-04 20:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by laural8477 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your to young to date. Why not try just enjoying your youth? Spending time with friends, and family. Too many kids want to be adults when they are not physically, or mentally ready for this.
I couldn't shave my legs until I was 12 years old, let alone date.
My daughters are not aloud to date until after high school. My oldest girl is in the 10th grade, and she has never had a boyfriend. She actually likes that too. The kids in her school some times commend her for her choices. For many of the girls are either mothers, or are going to be soon. Do you know that this is a serious step? Talk to mom and dad about this. Or even a counselor at school. Don't just date because others are doing it. That is the wrong reason, believe me, I was young once to.
2007-03-04 20:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm there isn't really any age restriction, but i am not dating til I'm 18. In my opinion, it's all about when you feel ready, however you don't want to get yourself in a silly young relationship and do things TOO quickly. I never had boyfriend all through middle school,and still don't, and i feel like it's all good. Just get involved in clubs and activities and sports and stuff. Yeah they take up a lot of time. But make your own decision, just take everyone's advice & life experiences into consideration!
PS: not having a BF keeps you out of trouble!!! it also keeps you from doing things you don't want to do be4 you're ready.
2007-03-06 20:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Reese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. 11 is way to young to have a boyfriend. Sure, boyfriends are fun, but they come with bad stuff too. They`re a distraction in school, so that`s bad for your future. Wait until you`re more mature to date.
2007-03-04 20:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You only have another 7 years to wait. In the meantime, I suggest you do your homework, say your prayers, and obey your parents. In 5 years, get a part-time job; that way, you'll have some money saved when you finally get a boyfriend, who will likely not have enough money to take you anywhere, and you'll end up paying your own way.
2007-03-04 20:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mangy Coyote 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well sweetie im 13 and when i was ur age i had a bf but it wasnt like go out on date kissin stuff it was sit next to him at lunch talk online and talk during school next year u may be able to go on dates with im well i hope i helped!
2007-03-04 20:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by lovely lady 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to be 20, no sooner, the ploice will track you down, and there is an age limit on here isn't there?
2007-03-04 20:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think 16 is a good age.
2007-03-04 20:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ha ha i agree wiht the very first guy. but your relationship depends on you and the boy. don't get into anything serious because you are way too young for that.
2007-03-04 20:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Chewy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋