Please help!! My boyfriend is extreamly jealous he has never showed any signs until just a while ago. I found an old digital camera of mine .. which i thought was lost a while ago. My boyfriend and I were looking through the old pix from about 1 year ago. He came across a video and started to play it.... it was my ex boyfriend and I fooling around. He saw this and flipped out! He broke up with me and doesnt want crap to do with me anymore. I love him so much but I don't know how to fix this. I cant find the right words to say to him. Please help me I dont want to loose him. I feel bad he saw it but I cant change it,
2007-03-04 12:00:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
was the video of you and your ex before you guys were together? or were you cheating on him with your ex bf??? it all depends on the circumstance. if it happened before him then he is pretty immature about something that already happened and needs to get over it, you should call him and tell him that you deleted it and that you dont care about that guy that you love him and he is the only one you want!
but if you were fooling around with that guy while being with your BF now then he has the rights to be mad at you and you will just have to give him time to get over it. You could try calling him and ask him to give you another chance that you are soo sorry.
Good luck!
2007-03-04 12:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to convince him that it happened 1 year ago..... and that he is the one that you want to be with. If he really cares about you then he will be able to forgive you. IF that happend before you two started going out then it should be no problem.
Figure this, IF you were still into your ex why would you be letting him see your camera? If you have nothing to hide then you should let him know that.
Be careful also about jealous guys... sometimes this will get you two in a lot of trouble. If he is a jealous person then he is not someone you wanna waste your time on.
2007-03-04 12:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man. OK so he saw this picture if it was me i would have fliped out to because its not something a man wants to see you know what i mean but what you need to do is to sit him down and try to talk to him buy him something nice tell him you got all the pictures out of the camera and get something to tell him how much you love him he will come back and thing about how dumb this hole thing was
2007-03-04 12:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by blondie9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that the video he was looking at happened when you were in a different relationship. If not that, then try to ask him why he freaked out the way he did. Remind him that you love him and the video means nothing anymore. I hope this helps.
2007-03-04 12:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK YOU WEREN'T WIT HIM WHEN THAT HAPPENED SO I THINK IT'S JUST AN EXCUSE IF HE WAS REALLY IN LOVE WITH YOU HE WOULD UNDERSTAND THAT THAT'S THE PAST IF IT WERE ME I WOULD GET RID OF HIM AND FIND A NEW ONE I THINK YOU HURT HIS PRIDE(EGO) IF YOU GO BACK WITH HIM THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME BECAUSE EVER TIME HE GETS MADE AT YOU HE'S GOING TO THROUGH THAT IN YOUR FACE IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT I DON'T THINK SO I WOULD GET RID OF THE TAPE OR PUT IT IN A SAFE PL FORGET HIM MOVE ON DON'T SHOW IT TO THE NEW GUY IN YOU LIFE FORGET HIM MOVE ON FORGET HIM IF HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU MOVE ON AND BE HAPPY WITH SOMEONE ELSE YOU'LL FORGET HIM IN ABOUT 3 MONTHS OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND
2007-03-04 12:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. well first off, if this happened before you two got together then it shouldn't bug him, its your past, and he has to accept the fact you dated people before him and should respect you and there is no reason to get jealous if your with him and not anyone else. he may be insecure about himself or not trust you. my advice is if you feel its not right, its because it isn't, so get out of the relationship before it gets bad or just let him know whats in your heart. good Luck. =]
2007-03-04 12:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by latina ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like your bf needs to mature a bit but you need to talk to him and tell him that was in the past and that it does not matter and that you want to be with him and not anybody else and after you tell him that he still does not want you then he is not worth it because if he fliped out over that then how bad would he flip out over other serious things
2007-03-04 12:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAlk 2 him and if he stills want 2 keep up bullsh##t, then move on i am sure u will find a guy who will apprecia6te u 4 who u are
2007-03-04 12:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he is quite insecure, and these types are often possessive and sometimes abusive. Otherwise, he might just be having a bad day---don't beg or grovel. He will deal with it and come around, and if not he was not a great catch!
2007-03-04 12:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by dumb-blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it! If he can't deal with something that happened a year ago and he wasn't even in your life............ he's not the right one for you. go with your instincts do you really want a man that doesn't trust you because of some silly photo from the past?
2007-03-04 12:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋