OK so there's this girl, I'll call her "Maria". I met Maria a while back..we were best friends..then we started dating. We dated for around seven months before we broke up. It's been on and off ever since..we broke up the "final" time around 2 weeks ago...the problem is when we aren't together, she acts way different, like she likes me when we aren't together, and when we are together she doesn't seem to like me as much. Is it because the feeling only comes back when she knows she can't have me or what? When we aren't together she calls me, and flirts with me, tells me she misses me, and then we end up together again..then when we are together it's dull and boring.
2007-03-04 12:00:34 · 3 answers · asked by RKO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, yall obviously have more fun together when yall ARENT "together" and i think that a key component in a relationship is to have fun. and apparently when yall are "together", you dont seem to enjoy eachother as much, so maybe you should just keep your relationship as it is. and see other people. but girls are also very tricky, so i think you should ask her straight up what she wants to do.
or, if its really meant to happen, it will.
GOOD LUCK :)
2007-03-04 12:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by karissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that "Maria" just doesn't know what she wants. I don't know what the reasons are for you two to break up, but if they're serious issues (cheating, manipulations, etc.) I'd suggest not getting back together. If it's simple, "stupid" things (she/you are bored with each other, etc), then that REALLY sounds like she just doesn't know what she wants.
I think you need to assess why you broke up and take it from there. Be aware that IF it's true that she just doesn't know what she wants, she might keep doing this and it might just be putting off the inevitable.
2007-03-04 20:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by dpfw16 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you "break up" she feels lonely and wants the attention she used to get from you.. she doesn't really love you anymore, but she still wants attention. DON'T give it to her. this happens all the time.. if you let her keep getting away with it, she will just keep playing you. she just wants SOMEONE. don't be that someone when you deserve someone better than her and a more Meaningful relationship. the unattainable are the most desirable. she likes the thrill of trying to get you.. but once she does it's not fun for her anymore, she likes the chase. committment issues.. and definitely Not good girlfriend material. you Need to move on.
2007-03-04 20:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋