2007-03-04 11:56:37 · 19 answers · asked by I wanna go fast kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks to all of you who answered me it means alot...I guess Im just gonna let it go and enjoy my life..everything happens for a reason to make us stronger right?....
2007-03-04 14:05:39 · update #1
Try to play it off like it doesn't bother you...some girls like to date their ex's best friend as a way of trying to get back at them for something...it takes time, but with a few good visits to your local club or hangout spot, new oppertunities will come along...getting over it and moving on is probably the best thing you could do.
2007-03-04 12:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man; sorry to tell you but it seems you have lost two things here. 1st of all your best friend (you thought). As a true best friend he would never have gotten between you and your girl fiend. He did so guess what? He was not the friend you thought he was! Was he? And as far as your former girlfriend goes, she wasn't all she was supposed to be either. So the best thing that could happen to you was you rid your self of falsehoods, two of them at the same time. That don't happen to often in life to solve two problems at the same time. It is in your benefit my friend to take the advise and move on. Your emotions will heal. Trust me and there will be a better day when you allow yourself to move from this situation. It is like a chapter in a good book, you have read it, and it is behind the page that you are now on but you can at any time return there for review. But it is in fact history. Now it is time to quit looking back and move on. Accept the fact it was for the best and don't do anything to lose character from your person. Now cheer up, and find something better to do Good luck getting a handle on your emotions.
2007-03-04 20:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by oskkid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will probably always have feelings for her. But in time you will get over it, if you do these three things.
1. Keep busy with some friends, and family. Do not isolate your self.
2. Don't dwell on the pass relationship, move on, and try to let her go. She made her decision. If she really loves you, she will come back, give it time. But if this is final, then please bow out gracefully.
3. Remember you are of value, and you are still young. Having alot of life in you yet, live it to the fullest, and find love again, when you are ready to. Bear the pain, it will lessen in time.
2007-03-04 20:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. That hurts. The very best thing to do is to move on...not to another girl, but to something else that interests you...and is active...a sport/physical activity is ideal - anything that gets ya going. The worst thing you can do is 1. pine after someone who doesn't love you (and isn't very loyal) or 2. find a rebound girlfriend (almost 100% guarantee of more heartache, either for her or you or both of you). Physical activity stimulates endorphins (that "lovin'" feelin') AND helps you stay in shape - Then when the "miss right" comes along, you'll be lookin' fine! You are in my thoughts :)
2007-03-04 20:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that you know the truth.You cant always get what you want in life.Just knowing that she likes your friend should tell you that you are not going to get from her what is needed to make a good relationship.Be glad and feel lucky that you know the truth and move on and find a new girl that is going to want you just as much as you want her.If you think that she is going to change her mind and go for you just because you want her, all you are going to do is end up being more hurt than you are right now.It isn't worth it my friend, move on and before long you will be over her and on to something better.
Good luck!
2007-03-04 20:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. I have personal experience with this one. One of my good friend's girlfriends broke up with him and started seeing my best friend on the same day!
First. Talk to your friend. Does he have your back? Is he cool with dating your ex that you still like?
As for her...if you get back with her, she will just do it again with some other friend of yours.
So, make sure your friend has your back, if so then let her know that guys don't operate that way and that she just royally screwed herself out of two relationships.
She may, 'see the error of her ways' after she realizes she can't get your friend and try to be with you again. I would be very hesitant of that, though.
2007-03-04 20:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Big_Daddy_Vance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your exact situation, but I went through something similar. Ask yourself this, if you did get back together, would you truelly forgive and forget? Because if not, move on. I made mistakes in my past and my boyfriend still rubs them in. I know I was in the wrong, but I'd rather he never forgave me, then lied and said he did then always bring it up.
2007-03-04 20:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I say beat the holy hell out of you best friend and then brain chop your ex. m'kay
God has spoken M'kay
2007-03-04 20:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lenny W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't invest your emotions any further on someone who does not feel the same way about you. Save your emotions for someone else who will appreciate them. Find yourself a nice gal and move on.
2007-03-04 21:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Maybe if you're lucky enough, she'll come crawling back.
Or if you wanna do it the cheating way, make her jealous by hanging out/holding hands/kissing another chick.
2007-03-04 20:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by War Pig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋