So the other night, I hang out with a good friend. We end up meeting up at a lounge and he introduces me to one of his friends. I ended up hitting it off pretty well with this woman. She was attractive, smart, had a great sense of humor and we had similar personalities. While I was talking to her I was a little worried my friend might be into her, but later on that night I found out from him that she was not really his type. The only thing that holds me back a little from pursuing her is that she is 33 and I am 25. My friend is 30 by the way. When I was talking to her she actually seemed a bit disappointed I was 25. Part of me doesn't care, but part of me does. I feel like I've just started adulthood, she's well into it. It is a little intimadating. I talked to another really good friend about it and he gave me typical guy advice, he basically told me to go for it just for the sex. I wish I could just care about sex, but I'm really too nice of a guy for that. I need help.
2007-03-04 11:55:21 · 20 answers · asked by acvader 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the things that is very attractive about a man is confidence. As a twenty five year old if you exuded enough confidence to hold the attention of this 33 y/o woman because you were attracted to her, then what's wrong with exploring where it may lead? It sounds like you two really hit it off, and trust me, age is but a number. You don't know what she has done in life to simply judge her by her age and vice versus. It may turn out that you are actually more experienced than she is. I say go for it. You sound like a nice guy. I wish you luck what ever you do.
2007-03-04 12:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The important requirements for a good relationship are abilities to share common goals, interest and activities. The number of birthdays is only relevant if they are less than 18. She may have a few extra miles on the meter but is the two of you hit it off do not let age block advancement. What do you want in a woman and how does she fit the list?? Likewise do You fall into her qualifications of the man in her future?? Talk about life and goals and expectations and see how well you two match. That is what is important.
2007-03-04 12:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a pretty mature guy! at 25 your really starting to grow into a solid man. I would ask her out! if she doesn't have a problem with the age difference then neither should you. She is a grown woman and can decide on her own. its not like your 18 and she is 26. that's a totally different maturity level. I have a good friend who's wife is 10 years difference and they are very happy and in love and have been for years. You sound like good man...take a chance and call her.
2007-03-04 12:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has the issue with the age difference, not you. I think most women want a man to be either there age or older, at least most of the time. Eight years differencein age is nothing that significant. If she has a problem with it then just keep looking. And if she just wants to have sex go for it and have some fun.
2007-03-04 12:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple that have been married 12 years - she is 45 & he is 35 (yes, a 10 year difference) and they are the "awe" couple of everyone that knows them. They are just a perfect fit.
If she is concerned about your age - you just have to prove that your not the typical 25 year old and if you have anything worth building on - she will get over it.
Be honest, be confident & pursue it if that's what you want to do.
2007-03-04 12:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 06:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eight years really isn't that big of a difference. Dating her does not mean that you are going to marry her. If you are interested in her give it a try. She may think that the age difference is a problem as well, but you will never know until you ask.
Believe me the older you get, it doesn't get any easier to find love.
2007-03-04 12:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by asking away 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've dated a woman around the same age. If she is semi-dissapointed about the age gap...convince her that it's a good thing.
Keep it positive. I feel the same way about being at the begining stages of adulthood. Demonstrate that your the guy she should be with.
2007-03-04 12:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
problem is if she has no kids and she wants some,, you only have say 3 or 4 years tops, before she expects you to be a father.. otherwise, she may already have kids and you willbecome a step father.... or she may aleady have kids and wants more,,, in that case you will be a step-father and a father!
lol, the point is, just go for the sex, just like your friend said, and find yourself a nice yournger woman, so you can enjoy years of fun,,, without kids! cause kids will change it from you and her to you and her and the kid(s) big difference!
2007-03-04 12:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you rock. Can you clone yourself? Oh about the age thing, date for a while and see what happens. There's no other way to find out how it will go until you spend a little time with her. Its too soon to be worrying about it.
2007-03-04 12:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋