I said hi to my boyfriend when he was right next to me within 1 foot, and he didn`t even react T.T... I don`t want to break up yet, he`s my first boyfriend. I want to work something out before turning to break up. We`ve been going out since 2 weeks before V-day, and he`s a really shy guy, and I`m really shy, too. Our friends always make us sit together and hug, but he hasn`t willingly done that himself yet. I`m pretty sure he still likes me, because we have a class together, and he would turn around in his chair just to look at me. So what`s wrong?? What should I do?? [[Please don`t answer why saying, "Dump him, he`s a loser." Like I said, I`m trying to work this out with him.]]
2007-03-04 11:45:18 · 5 answers · asked by Yuki 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes probably being shy becuase hes afraid of your reaction! somehow let him know that its ok. hug him without making your friends decide that for you. sit next to him, even though its awkward. then after a couple times, ask him to sit with you! if it keeps up, confront him..nicely. say something like "i really like you, but by the way your acting, it doesnt seem like you like me." if he says that he doesnt like you..hey, then at least you can stop trying to force it. good luck.
2007-03-04 11:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Elena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to make any mistakes, so he chooses to do nothing, which ironically is the biggest mistake of all. Just talk to him.
2007-03-04 19:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya do stuff with him! like go to the mall/movies etc. and maby he'll come out of his shell.. and maby like ask him straight out if he likes u and if he says yes then ask him y he doesnt talk to ya much.
2007-03-04 22:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and om pretyy shy but if u suck his dick hell tell u anything and hell probably hang out with u more but if u dont choose that way then find some gay guy that would hang out with u
2007-03-04 19:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
call him and be like, hey do you want to go to the movies?
2007-03-04 19:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋