This is a serious question for my Women's Studies class.. Female orgasms while rarer are far more intense than a males. Does having an Orgasm cause you to develope feelings for a guy that you otherwise might not have..Answer this related question also, Ladies would you rather have a guy that was spectacular in every way, but you could not experience an Orgasm with him.. Or would you rather have a completely mediocre partner who gave you the most intense orgasm every time with frequency. Thank You.
2007-03-04 11:42:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when women orgasm they release oxytocin which cause them to feel very emotionally close to the person that gave it to them (that is if they didnt give it to themselves) but i dont think it quite causes us to fall in love
2007-03-05 02:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is a serious question for my Women's Studies class.. Female orgasms while rarer are far more intense than a males. Does having an Orgasm cause you to develope feelings for a guy that you otherwise might not have..Answer this related question also, Ladies would you rather have a guy that...
2015-08-23 05:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on the women. But I know a lot of women who is this situation would try and forge a relationship based on the great sex and ‘fix’ the area in which was mediocre, for example give him a make over. However these days women don’t need men as much (for financial security, children..etc) so if the women is young or simple doesn’t want a relationship she would most likely keep you as a f**k buddy.
2007-03-04 11:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a mans point of view
women need to start putting them self's first more often
good sex is must with out good sex you can become neurotic
and blame on PMS. Women who's men can satisfy them com plan less smile more. All women need release or you will have misplaced emotion
I bet if a study was done women who have frequent mind blowing orgasms are less likely to get Cancer
Oh and good sex can inspire a mediocre guy to be man.
2007-03-04 11:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by shango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question reminds me of a line from a Tori Amos song:
"So you can make me come, that doesn't make you Jesus."
Anyhow, your question doesn't really apply to me. I know exactly how to make myself orgasm, and therefore I can teach any guy to do the same. I highly recommend other women learn this little secret to happiness.
That said, I definitely think that compatible sex drives and compatible sexual tastes are an important part of a relationship. Let's face it, without the great sex, you might as well just be room mates.
2007-03-04 11:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by sueflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather a guy spectacular in every way, but could not experience a big O with, because i could always help him give me one.
But if i had a mediocre in every way partner, i doubt i could change him.
No i dont fall in love after being with a guy!!
2007-03-04 11:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be naturally compelled to see good lover again. If I would know both guys at the same time and would have to choose beetween them, then I will go with the guy who is better life partner, and try to forget "intense orgasm" guy.
2007-03-04 11:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want the guy with some personality, because sex is only one aspect of your life together with a man. When you get old and gray, you might not be able to have sex anymore and if you only married him because he was a good lay, then you're out of luck when you get old. If his personality was not so hot, but he was a good lay, that fellas body is gonna wear out and bot matter anymore. BUT if you marry that guy who makes you happy, you can grow old and happy together. The fellow I seek in my life now makes me happy in every way- and we have not had sex. Whether the sex was good or bad, it would not affect my decision to be with this guy someday, because I love him for what is on the inside- the way he smiles at me, even though he's in a bad mood, the way he says exactly the right thing, the way he laughs and jokes with me to cheer me up, the way he simply looks at me and makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside, and the warmth I feel when he puts his arms around me.
That's just my opinion. I wouldn't trade my guy for the world, whether he was able to even have sex or not.
2007-03-04 11:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more important to consider how you share an orgasm than the mere fact that you have one...unless of course you are too shallow to even understand the relationship between sex and love...in which case you can't be helped anyway.
2007-03-04 11:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pick the first one, personally. For most women (myself included), being intimate isn't all about having orgasms. It's about being able to share yourself with someone special who appreciates you. As long as you're both having a good time it doesn't really matter.
2007-03-04 11:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think an orgasm makes a woman fall in love, if he's a jerk, he's still a jerk, and no amount of good sex will make her forget it.. she'll just keep him as a booty call without the relationship.
i'd rather have a partner who is a good partner than good in bed, hey, there's always sex toys to spicen thinga up, but its pretty hard to make a jerk into a decent boyfriend.
2007-03-04 11:46:33 · answer #11 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋