Ok...there are two girls that I like. They are both great although one does a few things that I don't really approve of (and I know she won't stop) and the other girl is really into school (I mean REALLY into it...I like school but she is more competitve than me). Anyway...I really like both of them but I don't know what to do...I really want some un-bias advice from someone! One of my friends wants me to date the girl who does stuff that's not for me and another wants me to be happy...I like them both but how do I decide??? Please help :)
2007-03-04 11:33:17 · 13 answers · asked by good_wasp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pick the girl thats into schoool because if you can't change the other one.. whats the ppoint of going for someone that will make you happy and appears to have no flaws
good luck
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2007-03-04 11:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anna G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be a lose lose situation because the first girl won't stop the things you don't approve of and the second girl although she's into school which is a good thing it sounds to me that she is into competing and being better than everyone else.Do you really need either one if they both have something you won't like about them. Why not just forget about the two and find a girl that is just simple( without issues).
GOOD LUCK any way.
2007-03-04 19:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what you should do, personally if i was in your shoes and a guy then i would pick the girl that is more into school! Just because the other girl could get u caught up in some stuff that u probably dont want to be in! But you should go with your heart! And you dont even have to date them you could stay single!
2007-03-04 19:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and by doing things you dont approve is doing drugs then you should just count her out because she would just want to do drugs all the time. School girl can really help you through school so go for the school girl, and then you can wait for the other girl to chill on her thing to see when she is going to stop then you can ask her out.
2007-03-04 19:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by franckoboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm this tough. well think about the ups and downs of each girl. try to think of how it would be like if you were dating one of them. if the girl that does "things that you dont like" and doesnt stop then it might be hard having a relationship with her. and the other girl that is very competive in school well she might stop being so competive later hope this helps!
2007-03-04 19:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready to get married pick the first girl and let the other girl study and become a better person. You can always toss this one to the side when you are finished with her without any guilt.
2007-03-04 19:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly my boyfriend was kind of in the same situation. and he picked me.. (am the school girl) and he actually changed me. am still focused in school. and not only did i manage 2 chnge him a little he changed me too. i make a lot of time for him and we're always hanging out in da weeknd. on weekdays we go 2 eachtoha houses n chill.. make out n do homewerk.. :)hehehe true stori. so just go 4 da school girl!!
2007-03-04 20:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with the school one.
2007-03-04 19:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by PPan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well who do you like more Ask each yourself who you like more. Personally I would go with the school one.
2007-03-04 19:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School one. No offense but she has a life and a future and the other one doesn't.
2007-03-04 19:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋