I like two different girls right now and I need help choosing. I'll describe them individually...
Girl 1: I've known her for a couple years and we are good friends. She is maybe the nicest girl i know, but every once in a while, she will get mad at me and we will fight for a day or so and then we will all apologize and we will be best friends again. She is funny and she makes me feel warm inside. She always laughs at my jokes and she makes me feel special.
Girl 2: I've known her for a few weeks. She is nice and she compliments me a lot. She acts very sweet and nice. She thinks highly of me. She is fun to be around.
I know that Girl 2 likes me and i think Girl 1 does. Girl 2 has told me she loves me and i told her i loved her too, which might be why i am uncertain about choosing Girl 1.
Should I wait to find out if Girl 1 likes me and if she does and I choose her, what should i say to Girl 2? Because she likes me a lot
2007-03-04 11:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really liked either one of them, you could pick one right now, so close your eyes, and who do you think of, pick them
2007-03-04 11:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you told Girl 2 you loved her, but in the description you didn't tell us that you loved her. Is there a reason for that? Are you sure that you meant it when you told her? Especially if you've only known each other for a few weeks-- that seems awful fast (although not at all impossible).
At the end of the day, we can't really pick for you based off short descriptions. You have to decide what you want from a girlfriend and why, and then just follow your heart.
Whichever girl you decide to go with, just tell the other one simply and honestly what is going on. Don't dance around the truth, or lie to protect her feelings.
2007-03-04 19:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Obi_San 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to follow your heart. That is the answer. Only you know who is the right girl for you. But honestly if you say you love girl two then why the indecision? If you love some one then the answer should be clear. In any case you need to take some time out and seriously think about which girl you truly want. Cause deep down you know there is only one you are supposed to be with. So trust in yourself and make the choice that you know is right for you and you alone. Good luck!
2007-03-04 19:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First come first serve. Go with Girl 2. You can't wait forever for Girl 1. If your such good friends then she should be happy for you. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-04 19:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already told Girl 2 you love her, you should not lie and break her heart and go w/ Girl 1.
Go w/ whoever your heart says, it won`t lie to you.
2007-03-04 19:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your choice if u want to choose girl 1 or girl 2 and follow your heart and hope that it works. :)
2007-03-04 19:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Soccergrl951 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obvouisly, u choosed girl 2 coz u said u loved her too... but still got feeling girl 1. u must think carefully because onli yourself know which girl who u most love..
2007-03-04 20:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by babyga1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let what happens happen, its one of those things you can't spend hours debateing over, let life take its course
2007-03-04 19:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋