Think really hard about why you broke up with your love from the past. Because things will not change, men are subjects of habit. They will say all the things you want to hear, but listen to his actions.
If you are happy in your relationship stay with him. Your past guy had his chance and blew it for some reason.
2007-03-04 11:36:15
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answered by asking away 3
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All of the men that I have ended relationships with have come back to me in some form or another similar to what you have described. I believe that it happened because the relationship ended without serious bitterness. You should be happy that you have that element working for you. First you have to decide what you want, because once you make a move towards your ex, there will probably be no going back to the one that you are involved with, since it would mean hurting him. Just be certain that your ex has good intentions if you are going to risk your current relationship over him. With some guys, they just hate to see the one that got away with someone else. If you ended it badly with your ex, it could be a revenge thing going on, where he dumps you after you dump your current guy. If you know him and know that he wouldn't do that, then just make sure you choose wisely after considering all the variables.
2007-03-04 19:54:18
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answered by sustasue 7
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this one is a hard one to answer. because he may be sincere bu then on the other hand he could just be messing with you. i had one of my exes come back into my life and tell me the same thing. well it only lasted a couple weeks and he moved back in with his girlfriend. i eventually found out that he told me all of this stuff just so he could get down my pants again. its a hard decision. i hadnt gotten over him either. but by going back i ended up just getting hurt all over again.
2007-03-04 19:46:24
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answered by sunshine24 2
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well 1st of all there is a reason hes in your past and didnt make it yo your future. wateva the reason is you should talk to him. becuase obviosly you are hurting and the feelings are still there betwen you 2.. just find a way to talk to the guy your with.. if he really cares about you and isnt some crazy stalker he'll uinderstand.. lol so just do it in a way none of you guys will get hurt
2007-03-04 19:39:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you happy with the bf you have now? Try talking with him, and tell him about the guy from your past who wants you back. Don't tell him the guy's name. See what he says. If you are happy with the one you have now, I say stay with him. Dont hurt him just to go back to someone who may disappoint you.
2007-03-04 19:36:47
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answered by Suzie 4
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Then you need to break up with the guy you are dating, cause u are just hurting u and him, then i would stay single for a while and then maybe date the other guy after about 3 weeks!!
2007-03-04 19:34:27
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answered by Anonymous
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You only owe it to yourself to be happy whoever you chose. Someone will be hurt no matter what. Just be honest and respectful of the other's feelings and they 'll appreciate you for it in the long run..
2007-03-04 19:34:40
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answered by FemFatale 3
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