why is it when there is a guy is suppose to be cool and popular and the guy with the biggest ego, girls like him. but when there is a guy who isnt the most popular or coolest or not the best looking but he's funny and smart girls only want to be friends and copy his homework for math class.
2007-03-04 11:25:43 · 22 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls like nice guys, well at least the ones who have a brain. There is the problem some nice guys are not that assertive and if you do not have confidence how do you expect to get a girl. Most girls already have like a sixth sense so they know when you like them and if you want to ask them out. The problem is that generally nice guys hesitate or keep postponing to ask a girl out to the point where she loses interest and the nice guy will go around whining about how he is always in the friends zone. So nice guys should grow so balls and ask the girl out right away instead of second guessing and hestitating. If they do this they can get the girls, its that simple.
2007-03-04 11:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by jason j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i cant speak for the other girls but i no that it doesnt matter what u look like or how big ur ego is as long as ur nice and funny i'll like u! I no the guys with big egos and all they want is one thing and u no what that is! They are the biggest pricks alive! so i'm srry that girls are like that. some are really vain anf only care about who they are datin, i like to call them the preps but some are like me and dont care so dont give up on finding the right girl for u
2007-03-04 19:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from. Not every girl wants to be with the class a@@hole.
I don't.
The same could be asked of you guys...why don't you want a sweet, funny "nice" girl?
2007-03-04 19:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally avoid the guys with the big ego and and most popular because most of the time they are total jerks i go for the sweet ones
2007-03-04 23:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, but I have four older sisters, so I think I see a pattern. All the guys my sisters dated in high schools were *****. But as they all graduated from college, they're all with these PhD guys who are funny and great to be buddies with. I guess nice guys have to wait for their chance. Eventually, nice guys will win. the saying that "nice guys finish last" is bulls*$t, DON'T BELIEVE IT.
2007-03-04 19:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Roger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always go for the nice guys because i cant stand those egos. i think they like him because they feel pressure to like him not the sweet funny guy who isnt that good looking.
2007-03-04 19:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by issyc1985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls, and I'm speaking from life experience, want a challenge. They also seem to want the bad guy. For example, Britney Spears had Timberlake but married Kfed (typical bad boy syndrome).
2007-03-04 19:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like this one boy, he used to do fb and now he runs. He's basically amazing, hes sweet but so shy i guess s dont take the time to realize, maybe they one day will. I dont want to wait till our class reunion to see him again. But i know he wont do anything and im not about to make the first move.
So basically s just dont give them the time of day, but i sure keep my eyes open.
2007-03-04 20:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sam K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls like sweet nice guys, but can never find them you just need to put yourself out there more
2007-03-04 19:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because those girls are SO incredible shallow. and they are totally missing out. a guy with ego and a repuation will not make it through life. a sweet, smart and funny guy will. and they also treat women right.
girls are too shallow and they are scared for their repuation and ego too. maybe those shallow bitches are good for eachother!
2007-03-04 19:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋