is there something I can say or do to make her see this? are there things about a guy that makes a girl think right away, that a guy is not the boyfriend type? is having a good job or going to college or having money saved, very important in showing you can support her and be a responsible man? is being completely independent and out of your parents house, also very important to show a guy is able to be a good boyfriend, or even more than a boyfriend? is just being responsible, nice, smart, a good listener, funny, sweet, honest, having a warm heart, being an understanding person, and more, enough to show you can be a great boyfriend? can being too nice and genuin show that you're a better friend than a boyfriend? answer all or some, thanks everyone, i appreciate it.
2007-03-04 11:23:33 · 6 answers · asked by greenhorns99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is there something I can say or do to make her see this? are there things about a guy that makes a girl think right away, that a guy is not the boyfriend type? is having a good job or going to college or having money saved, very important in showing you can support her and be a responsible man? is being completely independent and out of your parents house, also very important to show a guy is able to be a good boyfriend, or even more than a boyfriend? is just being responsible, nice, smart, a good listener, funny, sweet, honest, having a warm heart, being an understanding person, and more, enough to show you can be a great boyfriend? can being too nice and genuin show that you're a better friend than a boyfriend? answer all or some, thanks everyone, i appreciate it. I should also mention I'm in a wheelchair and the girl I like use to work for me, im baically over her now, im really asking in a general sense.
2007-03-04 11:38:04 · update #1
Possibly you are the one who needs to understand if a woman does not think you're a boyfriend type this means she is not attracted to you in that way - the romantic way. Quite simply, she sees you as a friend ONLY.
2007-03-04 11:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a friend and act like boy friend. It does not mean being sexual at all. Job / Money all that should not matter at least in the start of a relationship. All you need to do is take care of her and be there for her. A friend will say hey I can't be there today but a boy friend would not say that most of the time. Be there for her and also don't give your dignity away. Be respectful of herself and take care of her.
You need to be a listener buddy no matter what. Touch says a million words she will understand your love for her with your hug.
And after a few weeks just open your mouth tell her you love her on a special day or a special place.
Good luck with your love
2007-03-04 19:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Xtrax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well living on your own and having a job are definatly WAY BETTER than living at home with your parents ( that is such a turn off) also havinga life besides the girl shows a lot too. Just runing your own show, being an adult makes a real difference with me. i cant stand the guys that are stuck in childhood being a kid forever.
2007-03-04 19:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of those qualities are great to have, you need to be up front to the person you are interested in or she might not think you are into her. don't just sit back and let her pass by!
2007-03-04 19:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the woman. She may be wanting more than a friendship herself.
2007-03-04 19:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by mom2one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt want a boyfriend right now. especially one who is bragging to get his point across.
2007-03-04 19:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋