Okay here is the deal. I have this friend and everyone says that he likes me. Well I dont like him I only like him as a friend. If he asks me out then what do I do to tell him that I dont want to be his girlfriend but I still want to stay good friends?(without hurting his feelings)
2007-03-04 11:00:35 · 15 answers · asked by wimbwin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to read your question...
2007-03-04 11:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Richard J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of getting out of it ways. Like saying that you don't feel a spark, or you think that there are some things that would make you incompatible...this could be anything, or something telling him that you really like having him as a friend and you don't want things to change.
You sound like a really nice girl, who likes appreciate qualities in him. You should really makes those things known, because then he not only has a bad memory, but also can remember the great things he has to offer.
Good luck girl! We have all been here!
2007-03-04 11:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by sugarcookie1229 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your friend then you really should tell him how you feel. You should talk to him before he asks you out. Tell him "People have come up to me and said you like me but i really like you as a friend and I would LOVE to be best friends but i do not want to be your girlfriend i am really sorry."
2007-03-04 11:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Eva G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 06:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you dont want to ruin your friendship and that you love him as a friend, however be careful your not leading him on as something more than a friend!!! (you dont want to hurt him!)
2007-03-04 11:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me as a teenager.
I said that I did not want to take a chance of dating & it not working out & then losing his friendship. He seemed ok with it and we remained friends. We are still friends now.
Honesty is always the best policy.
2007-03-04 11:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just drop alot of obvious hints like saying "you are a great friend" or talk about guys you like around him so he gets the picture. Then he won't ask you out and things won't get awkward.
2007-03-04 11:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by dustbunny319 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be honest. Let him know you are flattered that he is interested, but your feelings for him are only as friends. Sometimes the truth hurts, but in the end its much better to have been honest.
2007-03-04 11:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Gem-a-holic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be forward and tell him you dont like him as more than a friend he wont get his feelings hurt. (Guys are pretty tough)
2007-03-04 11:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by [LeT's GeT WaStEd] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that hes more of a brother to you or that you don't really want to go out with anyone at the moment
or the truth... the truth is the best
2007-03-04 11:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Spongers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, that will work. it will hurt him but he has to sometimes face the facts in life. maybe theres someone else out there for him. good luck! :-)
2007-03-04 11:04:18 · answer #11 · answered by D@H0tr3dGur1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋