Well, I want to ask her to hang out, but I am going to be really busy next weekend, so our "date" couldn't be until the weekend after that. How can I keep her interested in the mean time? I don't want her to think I'm not interested, but at the same time, I don't want to start acting all needy and desperate, know what I mean? How can I keep her interested and subtly let her know I do like her until then? Do you think asking her to hang out with me the weekend after next weekend this week will seem....weird? lol idk, I need advice!
2007-03-04 10:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, heres what i think.
Being a girl myself in a similar situation right now, I think you should ask her to go out with you sometime and say "Well I want to hang out this weekend but I kind of already have plans, but how about the week after". That doesnt sound that lame. In the mean time, talk to her a lot. Dont ignore her for even just a day or else girls kind of think your using them. I dont know why, but thats just how we think. =) Good Luck with her.
2007-03-04 11:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by MeLLy BeLLy =) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show that your interested!! let her know about your plans this weekend, that way she feels like shes good enough to know about your life, and that way she doesnt go away because you dont ask her out this weekend. Try to keep in touch with her, even a text a day is good!
2007-03-04 11:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that would be weird at all. What you need to do is tell her you really like her, explain that your busy this weekend and you would love to chill with her the next.
2007-03-04 11:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by RonixDeAnn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's tough. You could go up to her and honestly tell her how you feel. Or, make the plan now and hope you don't loose her. It would be best if you could keep contact with her. If it's at a school, try and at least say HI or something. Pay attention to her: It won't give it away, but it might hint something. Good Luck!
2007-03-04 11:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by jcruser2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you she won't think it's weird at all. :) just be chill and be specific. ask if she wants to hang out next weekend and come up with something to do - go to a movie, go somewhere, do something you think she'd like to do or that you love to do. have fun!
2007-03-04 11:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in contact with her... and keep talking to her. You can ask her out... but I wouldn't recommend it until next week. You might turn the girl off.
2007-03-04 11:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hoofle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im going to make this real easy for you from a female perspective tell her your busy and you can't wait to see her next weekend just be honest and explain your situation at the moement if she doesnt wait she wasnt worth it hense she was to selfish to understand your obligations. good luck
2007-03-04 11:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Now and Again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her once or twice during the week, but not 5x every day! just call and check up on her if anything to remind her of your all's distant plans. the key is to let her know that you like her but are not dependent on her for your basic well-being and happiness. and letting her know you're busy does let her know your life doesn't revolve around her.
2007-03-04 11:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talkin'. and ask her if she would like to hang out sometime, but dont say a specific day, than cancel on her or she would think u stood her up.
2007-03-04 11:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋