I met someone right after I ended a serious relationship where i was cheated on.. He was a really wonderful guy and was patient for a while but i was so paranoid he told me it was getting too annoying for him. I couldn't blame him. It's been about a month and i still think about him. i'm sure he has a girlfriend because he's really got his stuff together. i regret i never got to know him better. i think about calling him a letting him know that he taught me a good lesson about putting things in the past and that i've got msyelf together now. i only want to be friends, but i don't know if he'll reject me or think i'm pressed(desperate). i wish i could get a second chance but i don't know if guys give girls second chances when they act nuts like that..
2007-03-04 10:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as if you were unfairly mistrusting towards him.
Well, contact him and apologize for that. And continue with the "Thank you" part.
If I were him, I wouldn't want you as "just a friend" because even at a reduced jealousy level a jealous friend is too much.
You can end with a very simple "I hope you give me another chance, but I'll understand completely if you don't." Whether he takes you up on that or not will probably depend a lot on what else he does or doesn't have going on. Most likely, he's dating somebody else very casually right now, or several somebody elses. He might be able to make room for you on his schedule, either now or soon. ;)
2007-03-04 14:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my gf just broke up with me. I have been begging an pleading for her to give me another chance. But she wont. If she was the one pleading instead of me, I would give her another chance. How many people are willing to cry for days and beg a person to take them back even though they know its impossible. Well at least I am willing to, I would give a girl a second chance if she asked for it, beause it means she really loves you.
2007-03-04 10:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are similar to girls - you can't judge them all the same way. Some guys will give you a second chance, some won't.
2007-03-04 10:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't give second chances because I move on to the next girl. but if I didn't I would
2007-03-04 10:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by StreetPunk93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey ~ i'm sorry 2 hear that but second chances really depend on the guy.
i wish u the best ~ i hope he's 1 uv the sweeties that forgive
♥chloe'
2007-03-04 10:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♫♥aLwAyZ iN L♡V3 WiTh sUm1♥♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm for the main section confident, because of the fact we don't love being grew to become down so we generally do no longer ask the girls back yet some people who certainly need the girl provides you with an countless sort of possibilities.
2016-09-30 05:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by truesdale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is talk to him and try to "feel" him out on what he thinks about you.Tell him the truth and go from there.Good luck.
2007-03-04 11:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋