How do you discipline someone elses kids who have no fear of authority?

Question

I have two kids who just laugh and curse me out when I tell them "no". I'm on the verge of using an old fashioned belt on both of them.

Answer 1

'folly is bound up in the heart of a child but the rod of correction will drive it far from him', God said it
Warm their mother severly if they do this again they will get spanked and hard, then do it, so they cry with remorse. You must take control, you are caring for tyrnats. Tell her she will not bring them to you again unless she agrees.
Why do you people today have no back bone? how dare they disrespect you! Their parents have done them a great injustice making them so uncivilized, children are supposed to be a blessing.

Answer 2

I agree that children need discipline;however, when sitting for other children, do not cross the line of the unknown until speaking about the topic BEFORE sitting. Though this may be nervewracking, it should be done to avoid foolish decision-making. I have taken care of children of the like. Ignore the behavior and pretend as if they did/said nothing of the kind. Bad behavior need not be rewarded with attention. Once attention for bad behavior is received, it will be enough to fuel/continue their actions. If things have not improved yet , you'd probably be better off sitting other little ones. These children may have issues that may be too profound for you to handle. Don't put yourself in a stressful situation. If so, harm can be done and you will be held responsible. Ignoring bad behavior is not allowing yourself to be "run" over, rather it allows your authority to stay in tact.

To those who are using biblical scripture to advocate their opinions: Make SURE you converse with the One who is in authority before stepping ahead of yourself in giving unwise advice. A wise man should seek counsel before giving it. The "rod" is not only referring to a physical rod, so please, be careful at what you suggest.

Answer 3

You just have to stay strong and in control.
You are the one in charge, keep with being disciplining them.

I met a child like this at a birthday party today, but while others were scared to tell her what she had to do, I had no problem with being stern and telling her off- much to the disgust (I think) of her mom.

Children need discipline and boundaries, so be strong and firm in your role as authoritarian!

Answer 4

i think of if the dad replaced into in simple terms watching the newborn play up and not doing something, i might have embarrassed him in front of the different purchasers and his newborn, and informed him if he wasn't keen to place his newborn so as then i might could desire to.If he had reacted violently then it somewhat is the way it would have had to be. Then his newborn might could desire to learn from his dads errors. My opinion, there are way too many undisciplined little ones approximately.back interior the 80's i might have have been given a clip around the ear if i've got been disrespect complete to an grownup and then a beating from my mom and dad as quickly as they found out.this is each and all of the do-gooders molly codling the final era.

Answer 5

That is so frustrating. How old are the children? Why are you around them? I mean, do you baby sit them? Friends? Etc...

If you HAVE to be around them then stay calm. Don't argue with them, EVER...remember they are children. If you appear frustrated and stressed they will pick up on it. They are going to do whatever they are allowed to do.

Don't let them touch anything of yours or participate in anything if they aren't being respectful. Show them a chair and let them sit in it till their parents come. If they start to treat you with respect then they will earn privledges. It isn't up for discussion, you aren't going to defend yourself. They can be mad, they can curse, but they will sit in that chair.

Be sneaky too..there has to be something that they would really like to do or really like to have that you can deny them for being disrespectful.

Not knowing their ages makes it difficult.

Good Luck. SD

Answer 6

Need more info. Why are they at your house? Are you babysitting or are they over to play with your kids? You need to make them sit in the corner no matter how old they are. Make life miserable for them when they are there if they dont listen and respect you. If they show respect reward them. Don't ever hit anyone eles's kid. You could be sued or put in jail.

Answer 7

Sounds like you should of started that from the start. I am sorry I just don't get parents who say there kids curse yell and fight with them at such young ages. YOU ARE THE PARENT. Take control. Wish I could help but my children know that the minute they spoke too me like that they would be shitting out bubbles from all the soap they will eat.

Answer 8

get a chair and find a corner in a room with no toys. Pick the child up and put them in time out and then take an egg time and put it at the age they are so if they are 5 they shoudl be in time out for 5 minites and if they get up before the 5minites is up the timer starts all over again so what if they stay in time out all day they will eventually learn

Answer 9

i would not tolerate that behavior, however, it is probably not a good idea to spank another persons children even though i completely advocate spanking if done appropriately. Who do this children belong to? are you just babysitting or are they your stepchildren? if you are babysitting i would talk to the parents and stop watching them unless the parents can get their children under control. if they are your stepchildren then you need to have a serious talk to your partner. that behavior is unacceptable and i would put a stop to it now.

Answer 10

Why do you need to discipline someone else's kids - where are the kids parents?