I am dating my girlfriend for long term relationship. I will eventually marry her if our relationship has gone serious enough. I am 24 years old. We've been dating for at least 1 year. I'm in love with her. We never gone pass kissing because I want to save it for until marriage. My girlfriend wants me to go pass kissing but I want to save it until marriage. I care about her so much and love her. Will this destory my relationship?
2007-03-04 10:31:14 · 7 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she loves you back, she will respect your wish about wanting to wait. if she wont respect the boundaries you set, maybe shes not the right girl for you.
2007-03-04 10:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play your cards right you and your girlfriend can work this out so you can do what is right, but you might want to explain to her the reasons why you plan to save yourself for marriage for whatever reason, and if she is understanding then she will not push it further and wait as well, Tell her you care a lot about her but your concern is that you don't think that you and her should go any further then kissing and why you feel that way and find out what she thinks.
2007-03-04 18:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother look, sex got nothing wrong its normal natural its meant to happen before or after the marriage. Just that u have to be old enough like 17 and up..its normal.
But if u really can hold it for that long (after marriage) and she wants sex , she could wait for u if she loves u..it wouldnt destroy nothing buddy . hope u luck friend..
2007-03-04 19:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by japo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda...why dont you propose to her though?? YOU SHOULD go a little pass kissing, not all the way, but a little. IF YOU ASKED HER TO GET MARRIED< im sure she will say yes!
Good luck!!! :)
2007-03-04 18:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's the right one for you, she wouldn't force you to do anything to compromise your morals. Ask yourself this question, If you give in and have sex with her and you guys don't work out, how will you feel? Will you have regret that you didn't stick to your guns?
2007-03-04 18:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully not..there r not many men out there like u ....she should be glad....when u finally go that far it will mean that much more....there r other ways of being satisfied, u should at least give her that
2007-03-04 18:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by tigermoondog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she know u want to wait. she could feel that things are too slow if she doesn't know u want to wait.
2007-03-04 18:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋