Yesterday me and my girlfriend broke up.We had a few drinks , and she started to act uninterested in me,she was going to her friends talking, laughing,I told her,i need you tonight to be with me.We were really drunk.She told me, i can't, im sick..The same day we had a great time, laughed, it was great. When we got a little drunk, s*it started do happen.The same night, i got a message, she wanted to brake up with me. I answered " i don't respond to messages, i'll see you tommorow, and we'll talk." Today we got together, and we talked. I asked her why she said that, was it something to do with me, did i do something wrong.. She said you are perfect, thats why i can't date you anymore. She said she didn't loved me, but she liked me very much. I do love(d) her, maybe thats why. I have to mention,she cheated me once with a celebrity,she was sorry and i forgived her.Today we agreed not to date anymore,but we will still make out when we feel like it. What should i do? me 18, she 15...
2007-03-04 10:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by hazard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For ALL of you that say thats illegal or smt, i'll tell you that we haven't had sex yet... It's not all about the sex... i just want some love and attention... which i didn't get from my ex gf. But i love her... She is the most beautiful thing in the world... great body, face (she's a model)... anyway what's LOVE? And after we had a talk today, few hours after that, we were out in the city, drinking coffee, sitting on the same table. when her friends went out for a sec, she told me that it was really strange sitting opposite of eachother, and not kissing and huging. She told me to come closer, and we made out. It was really strange for me too, when we kissed it felt a little better. She told me that if she misses me this week, we will get back together... I don't know what to do... Is she making a fool outta me, what is it?!... I really didn't wanted for this to happen, this breaking up sh*t. Advise me PLEASE!!! I can't be with her, i can't be without her. I'm a total mess, HELP!
2007-03-04 11:10:36 · update #1
For starters what the heck are you drinking at that age!! Ok that was the mother in me now for the advice....she is 15 yrs old and has no clue what she wants. She is not emotionaly mature enough to settle down. She is not even as emotionaly mature as you are and you are only three yrs older then she is. She does want to commit herself just yet because she knows there is more fish in the sea to be caught. As for the making out part that will come to a complet stop when she replaces you and sweetie hate to say it that day will come. You need to distant yourself from her, I know that will be hard but you need to start healing before she does more damage to you.
2007-03-04 10:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neil Sedaka wrote a song along time ago called "Breaking up is hard to do". No kidding. I've been in your shoes, and heard the same thing. Usually once you cheat, it's over. The guilt is overwhelming on the other person, especially if you're a "nice guy". She is the one with issues, it's not you. You can move on now, or in 7-8 years. Once you get over her and are happy, you will find that next someone special. Girls don't really seem to know what they want until they are 25. Bye then, they've been crapped on enough by the bad guys, or have matured, and know a good man once they've found him. I found my true love when she was 28.
2007-03-04 10:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought since u said u both were drunk that u were adults.. wow 18 and 15 that is so young to go out drinking and having sex.. and compare to ur age she is underage.... she clearly told you how she feels.... ur only good when she wants to make out... so deal with that or and find someone thats ur own age that wants to be with you... darn u guys are growing up so fast... slow down.. u got a whole life ahead of you...
2007-03-04 10:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u r 18 and she is 15...there is really something wrong there...differrent ages = different stages...you must have known that it was not gonna go anywhere and that it was gonna end at some point...if i were he i would have dumped you because of the age...havent u ever heard of the saying "find someone your on size"
2007-03-04 10:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by bush sucks nutz! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor girl alone.
2007-03-04 10:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're dating a 15 year old?
thats ILLEGAL!
and you're getting her drunk???
Good GOD!
pervert!!
2007-03-04 10:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's 15??? maybe u should just forget everything and find someone your own age.
2007-03-04 10:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋