How do I know ? ? ?

Question

Ok their is this guy in my class named Javel, he is a twin but they do not look alike. He is the cute one. No offence. He is alot smarter than his brother and he is type of guy that parents would want for their kids.

He is a dream . He has brown eyes I made like 50 videos of us to the songs happy ending and brown eyes. I am so inlove but up until today I have not wonder what would happen after I get him. I was stuck and I saw no future so how do I know that its being with him is worth losing a great friend.

Answer 1

Never could understand how people get it in there heads that there not suppose to have a friend be their lover? I mean who better? Just the guy that wants to have sex with you? I guess its just easier for us to paint the picture that way. I've had the joy of having a lot of people that could of been great lovers just be my friends and it just left me and them with the insecurities of not really knowing how much the other one cares. The real problem comes from when after being lovers you descide weather or not you guys are on the same page from there on. Which is damn hard. Do you form a relationship and stay with each other, sole? Or you guys ready for that path in your lives? Its a sticky game with plenty of great highs followed by equal lows. I'm not going to tell you that you'll lose your friendship, might accully make a stronger relationship. But the stablity of it all comes down to you two. Which is true weather your starting with a life long friend or newly found stranger. Just ask yourself which is the better person to take a chance on? Also alot of times finding another relationship can destroy friendships because of the feelings envovled. To be frank and honest with you I havn't had many friends that I didn't think to myself how good of a lover they might of made... well my female friends atleast. Besides I gave it a try and I'd have to say it's been one of the most intense lover affairs I ever had, just remeber honesty in the beging, honesty to the end.