Does he only like me for my looks? please read. im very confused?

Question

Ok heres the deal...
i went out with him for about 4 months and he lives 3 hours away. We broke up and got back together about 5 times before we really broke up. We went through a time were we didnt talk then one day i was boreda and texted him and we instantly clicked. I have been talking to him for like 8 months. I am in LOVE. I cant help myself. He says he loves me too. The only problem is . . .his girlfriend. He says he likes me more but he hasnt broken up with his girlfriend yet. He always wants me to send pictures of me (none inapropriat) we even have a song. Your Guardian angel by Red jumpsuit apperatus. We are both going the same place for spring break. He always tells me how much he wants to kiss me. I told him not if he has a girlfriend. He says he will break up with her before. I dont know if i should move on or not. Remember i feel like we are SOUL MATES. Should i wait for him to break up with his girlfriend or MOVE ON. HELP ME!!!!
p.s.
im 14 so i cant drive or anything

Answer 1

there r 2 reasons he might want u 2 send only pics of urself
1) he wants to see u because he love u sooooo much
2) he wants to show u of 2 the guys
This ones pretty confusing but u sould tell him that if he really loves u he'll break up with his girlfriend 2 b wit u

ps don't just go and have sex wit him thats just stupid ur only 14 what the hell was that guy thinkin sayin that. u could get an STD or something. hopefully for u that's not want ur "soulmate" wants u for.

Let me know how it goes
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Answer 2

It's dangerous, no matter what your age, when the person who is the object of your affection already has a significant other. In my experience, I've found it worthless to wait around for them to break up so we can have a relationship. Think about how you would feel if you were in her shoes....if you two were together and he was saying these kind of things to another girl. Be respectful and don't mess with people's feelings - including the other girl's feelings.

Answer 3

sounds like he is wanting to have 2 girls that he can take advantage of , if he hasnt broken up with his girlfriend yet when he keeps on telling u is going to i would just try to get over him before u get ur heart broken and before he brakes the other girls heart while hes at it. trust me it hurts to have ur heart broken. if he is practily cheating on this other girl if he brakes up with her and goes out with u how do u know he want do the same thing to u considering yall are 3 hours away?

Answer 4

3 hours away and you're too young to drive?

Move on to other relationships, but stay in touch, and make it very clear you hope something works out down the road.

And by the way -- what's so bad about kissing somebody who has a girlfriend? :)

You're taking this all wayyyyy too seriously. That's natural when one's so young, but still -- you're taking it way too seriously.

Answer 5

Of course he likes you for your looks, all men do otherwise they wouldn't be with you. Basic fact of life.

Stop thinking of yourself for a moment, imagine what his girlfriend would feel knowing you are trying to land her boyfriend. You are the girl every girlfriend hates. Good job.

Answer 6

Soulmates...obviously you arent if he won't even call you his girlfriend... when he breaks up with his girlfriend then you can talk about being together...but honey you arent his sole mate if you arent even his girlfriend

Answer 7

well, soulmates is a pretty strong word for a situation like this. you are only 14! Just have fun.

Answer 8

that is up to u not us. u have to decide what u wanna do if u really love him then wait

Answer 9

14!!! your too young!!! enjoy your teens... you have a lifetime to get involved with someone...

Answer 10

I think you should move on. I don't think he truly loves you.