When it is a question of my professional skills, sure - I am happy to be needed and to be paid for satisfying somenody's need.
When it is a matter of personal relationships, I do not want to be needed. I want to be desired. Needy persons are not the kind of persons I want in my life.
2007-03-04 09:51:52 · 13 answers · asked by fra59e 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mostly agree with you. It's better to be desired most of the time, but when you're apart for a while and your girl jumps into your arms and tells you how much she just needed you to hold her. It's pretty damn good too
2007-03-04 10:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Luviticus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to be needed, desired, and loved. If I do not feel needed in a relationship, I feel confused. Its okay to be desired but desires generally change over time. I dont want to be thrown away after his desire for me has worn off. Being needed gives off a sense of worth and appreciation. It makes most of us feel important.
2007-03-04 10:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to be needed and desired. Most people do. Being needed means that person HAS to have you and being desired means that person really really wants you. Both is paradise~!
2007-03-04 09:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that everyone wants to be needed by someone whether it be professionally or personally.
2007-03-04 09:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people might say no, but i think deep down everyone feels good when they know that someone out there needs them and they have been helpful in some way
2007-03-04 09:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to be both, I love being a big part of someones life and having them depend on me and know that they CAN depend on me.
2007-03-04 09:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's someone you truly love, you'll want them to need you AND desire you. same thing. it's a wonderful thing to be needed, in the right ways.
good luck with your relationships, and best wishes.
2007-03-04 09:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Hailey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want love, and desire.
I want to be needed, but not too much.
If I want that much need, I'll get a puppy.
But I want to be part of someones life, and not be rejected.
2007-03-04 09:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion there's nothing wrong with that. Being independent is a good thing I think.
2007-03-04 09:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want someone to need me only if they loved me because then i would only feel used....to feel needed makes me feel like im not useless
2007-03-04 09:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by skibabie12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋