He lets him say alot of crap to me that it kinda offencive. Ive told them to stop but they always type lol or something. Is my boyfriend scared of his bff?
2007-03-04 09:51:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the things that your boyfriends' best friend says to you are intimate in content, then it is probably one of two things:
1. Your boyfriend wants to break up with you but doesn't know how, so he is building a case of "cheating with his best friend" in order to end the relationship.
2. You boyfriend wants to appear as a cool guy who doesn't let things people say to his girlfriend get to him. Remember, this is his best friend not someone off the street. He doesn't want to ruin the years of friendship so he is being tolerable with the advances of his best friend towards you.
If I were you, I would begin to be observant of how your boyfriend acts toward you. Has his attitude changed recently? Has he stopped doing the little things he used to do? Does he spend more time away from you now? When his bestfriend talks to you, does your boyfriend seem to not be around?
2007-03-04 09:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your boyfriend is afraid of his best friend. I just think that when boys are around their friends they tend to act a little more care free than usual. He probably doesn't want to start anything between him and his friend over the way he treats you. If anything, I think your bf is not offended by what his friend says and probably thinks his friend doesn't mean any harm by saying those things to you. He probably thinks his friend is just being funny and you are being sensitive. I suggest saying crap right back to him to let him see how it feels OR sitting down and having a serious talk with your boyfriend about it and if after that things don't change, maybe you should get a new boyfriend
2007-03-04 09:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way I wouldn't put up with. Tell his friend to stick it where the sun don't shine and if your bf wants to hang with him then you hang somewhere else. Better yet grab him by the shirt and shove him up against a wall. Then tell him to take a hike. I nailed a guy 3 times the size of me up against a wall. He never binked till I said go and he took off. Let them know who is boss.
2007-03-04 09:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new BF. There is no WAY that I would allow my BF or his BFF speak to me disrespectfully. They are obviously NOT taking you seriously, so that means you need to let them know you mean business. If they don't stop, ditch the BF and find someone who respects you.
2007-03-04 09:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes really stuck up when hes around that friend and he could be scared of his bff thats always a possiblity or hes just showing off in front of that one. some people act differnetly based on who they are around
2007-03-04 09:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by loveliliekisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be scared but its disrespectfult o you for him to let his friend say that stuff. Tell your boyfriend you wont put up with it.
2007-03-04 09:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh jeez, why don't you just disconnect from the chat or move away from the computer? it's not like this is happening in real life.
this is his bestfriend and he shouldn't treat you like that but if your bf is unwilling to step in when this happens, then you should accept that this will be come a pattern in your relationship. i say, dump him.
2007-03-04 09:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It's seems that your bf doent respect you, If any of my boyfriend's friends say things to me that would hurt me, He would say something and do something to stop that, you need to talk to your bf about it.
2007-03-04 09:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probly or he is just an asshole i say leave n find some one better because he is not showing u respect letting his so called buddie talk to u lik ur not a person
2007-03-04 09:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your boyfriend doesn't respect you. Why do you ALLOW the disrespect to continue?
2007-03-04 09:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋