Ok, my boyfriend played a basketball game today, and i went with my best friend nd we went and watched him. The power had been out all day, just in case you want to know. My friends boy friend plays on the same team, and before he left, he gave her a hug. My boyfriend didn't give me a hug. I got on MSN today, and we were talking, but he wasn't being himself. I didn't know why. He told me that he didn't feel like himself. THat he feels confused. Yesterday, he went to a party and slow danced with this girl that he's liked since 4th grade, and he told me that he ddn't feel anything and he still loved me more. He was cheering for her at the game today, and he didn't really talk to me. He got offline and then got back on and said that he was just kidding the whole time, ad he was still sad, but he didn't know why. Last night, i went to a party with him and my BFF's BF and we had an amazing time! But today, isk what happened. Is he gonna break up with me to get with this other girl?
2007-03-04 09:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by kenzers2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is absolutely no way to tell what he is going to do. But I can tell you that whether or not they like to admit it, men get just as moody as women do. He's probably just being really moody. It is quite natural for him to flirt with a girl he has liked for years, but I wouldn't worry if I were you. I'm sure he has to endure looking at other guys flirt with you!! That's life. Stop worrying about whether or not he's going to leave you and make the most of the time you both have together. Give him a REASON to stay with you - be yourself and not a worry-wart.
Good luck!!
2007-03-04 09:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by lanibear55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like too much drama for me, but I'm In a different age bracket. Anyway, why do you worry if he is going to break-up with you? Don't be a wet noodle, BF's should be kind and considerate of your feelings. You are not just some "thing" he can decide to play with or not. My honest advice is break-up with him and don't date until you are more sure of yourself. Until then, it sounds like you don't respect yourself enough to make good decisions. I am not criticizing you, trying to give you some advice that may help you. There is a lot more to life than whether or not you have a BF. Follow your own interests and actively pursue YOUR goals, when you are ready for them, boys will flock, you can pick and choose. trust me.
2007-03-04 17:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by smp1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think this guy needs a swift half up the backside. He sounds just like he's using you for example, he's all off with you but then he's okay with you at this party. Something is a drift, you want to ask him straight what he feels for this other girl and if he cant answer you then get rid of him, love hurts but your the innocent one here. Don't get me wrong though if you think he's worth fighting for then go for it, go see this girl and ask her what's going on get a straight answer. But i personally think from reading that your too good for him get out why you can before he goes behind your back. Take care my lovely and good luck xx
2007-03-04 17:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sparrabeth Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just trying to work out his feelings for himself without alarming you. It may not really be anything to do with the girl that has him in a contemplative mood. Just give him space and time to figure out whatever it is. If things were fine before, then he'll let you know when he is ready to talk about whatever is eating at him now. The best advice I can give you is to back off and don't nag at him to tell you what is wrong.....guys HATE that!
:-)
2007-03-04 17:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by poetess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayb he is goin 2 break up with u but heres some tips 2 deal with break up
The break-up of a romantic relationship can be a very sad experience. When we enter such relationships, we give a part of ourselves to someone else, we grow to depend on that person for many of our emotional needs, we learn to trust that person. It rarely occurs to us that the relationship will end, otherwise, we would not allow ourselves to be so vulnerable to another.
The loss of a romantic relationship can create a void in your life. The process of grieving that loss is similar to grieving the loss of a loved one through death. You may experience a range of emotions from a numbness, to sadness and despair, to anger. The numbness is our way of protecting ourselves from the overwhelming feelings that come along with such a loss. Depending on how much time you and your romantic partner spent together, and how long the relationship lasted, your whole lifestyle may be shaken, as you try to fill in the spaces of your life that were filled with that person. If that person also attends Loyola, you may have constant reminders as you see him or her on campus, walk along familiar places that the two of you travelled together, eat in the same place where the two of you shared your meals, or spend time with the friends that the two of you shared. Having mutual friends can be particularly awkward, as you try to figure out how to maintain the friendships without running in to your "ex."
Often times friends don't know how to handle the break-up either. You may feel that they are tired of hearing your feelings about the break-up. They may tell you that it is time for you to get over it. They may not understand your ambivalent feelings, of still caring for someone who may have hurt you. It is easy for an outsider to tell you what you should be feeling, but romantic relationships are very personal, and we each have our own way of dealing with their endings. We can never really tell another how they should react.
When you need someone to talk to, to share the range of feelings that you have, to help you mourn the loss, to help you get back on the track of your life, attending classes, studying, socializing, just wanting to enjoy life again, come to the Counseling Center. Talk things over with a counselor who understands what you are going through and can help you work through the break-up. Remember, the break-up of a relationship does not have to mean the break-up of you.
2007-03-04 17:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by heyheyhey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe? You can't really be certain about what will happen, but it seems like the typical signs of a guy that wants to break up. Sorry..
2007-03-04 17:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Guy77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, dont worry about thing that havent happened yet. u should take precaution and look into things, but dont WORRY. u should feel comfortable in a relationship, and if he really loves u, then dont worry about this other girl. good luck to u two lovebirds, and i hope things work out!
2007-03-04 17:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by the gurl next door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can surely determine that. It is up to your boyfriend. There can be a million reasons why he isn't acting like himself. So be straight up with him and tell him its no joke and if hes been alright or if there is something he is not telling you. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-04 17:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a 70 % chance he could b sad because he is not happy with u and dont know how to break up with u u need to tell him that he needes to spend time with u and not other girrls and not to slow dance with anyone
2007-03-04 17:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋