Kris and I dated...I fell in love than we broke up caue he was just getting all theses girls that liked him. We started dateing about 2 months later again...and than this 12 year old he liked came up and her skipped school to hang with her and kissed her. Than he started dateing her while dateing me and than he broke up with me. Than he cheated on her with me and 4 other girls. He says he loves me and stuff and he says I'm so confuseing. Well he dumped the 12 year old and now wants to date me, but wants to wait a week or two. Well it just happens I fell for another guy who I've liked since Octoer. Ryan. He kissed me this weekend and I know he likes ma nd i like him. He makes m alugh alot and when we part I'm still smiling. With kris I smile too, but when we part i get all sad becasue he was with the 12 year old. Ryan is a good guy and won't cheat on me. I know this. But I still love kris, but i'm scared of getting hurt...What should i do?
2007-03-04 09:44:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow this is funny cause the chick was 12 lol...but yeah ne way... Umm I would totally go with the answer...It's better to love and lost, than to have not loved at all... because then you'll never know what would have happened in that relationship...but yeah...if hes going out with 12 yrs olds..don't feel too bad, cause he shouldnt be goin out with 12 yr olds in the first place..im taking it ur older...hes prolly saying ur confusing because ur smarter than he thinks you are. You need to let Kris go...hes a nutural "john tucker" drop him, cause whats gonna stop him from cheating on you again, and then him come crying and whinng about how hes changed and then u taking him back...yeah kick him to the curb sister!!!!! grow and focus only on Ryan..(Ryan is a hotter name ne way!! lol) and Kris will start to feel the loss....
2007-03-04 09:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by !London Force! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go back to kris you will only get hurt more. but if you go for Ryan you will experience something so much better that at the end you will not regret it. and you are going to look back at Kris and laugh cause you know what you are his 3rd wheel and he will only take advantage of you he will leave you whenever he pleases and take you back when he pleases also and seriously do you really think you deserve this?
2007-03-04 17:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just out of curiosity, how does a 12 year old date anyone? Where exactly do they go on these "dates"? Also, please tell me how a 12 year old can be in love with one guy and have feelings for another little boy. I don't know, but I must have missed that class in grade school
2007-03-04 17:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget Kris. he cheated on u so he doesn't really love u. Go wit Ryan. He seems nice ta way u put it but if he does ta same thing then dump him witout hesitation.
2007-03-04 17:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget kris, he had his chance and to me it seems like he messed up not once, but twice! this ryan guy gets my bote of approval. if he gives you butterflies, he's not just some guy who you like; he is special. dont let ryan get away...it seems like kris will be waiting for you anyways if ryan doesnt work out. This kris guy reminds me of materialistic girls- he only wants whats in style... in plain english, he wants something new and exciting, he doesnt want to really settle down. dont let his mistakes change your feelings. BE STRONG! lol u dont need any guy...just remember that.... girls dont need guys to be happy
2007-03-04 17:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i vote for Ryan, there is no future with Kris and you are right. u will get hurt will Kris,he wont change his ways
2007-03-04 17:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel and i know that even if they treat u badly u still love ur bf. i really dont kno what to say bc im sorta in the same situation but my bf isnt cheating on me i just dont like him as much. but he used to like other girls
2007-03-04 17:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi heart_to,
my typical answer is that u cannot sail keeping ur two feet on two boats. u have to decide one whom u want go. so be firm and take the decision. enjoy the life!
2007-03-04 17:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a 12yr. old? how old is this guy? She is under age and if he is of age , he can get in trouble!
2007-03-04 17:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋