Just curious, I love him - he says he loves me but there is always a little doubt. Is this normal?
2007-03-04 09:39:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah I think it is normal. I don't think you will ever know completely whether or not your significant other loves you as much as he/she says he/she does. You just have to trust them. If he/she says they love you and they show it, then you have to trust that they are telling you the truth.
2007-03-04 09:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never know 100% what someone else's feelings are. I'm sure most women doubt whether their boyfriend loves them or not at some point. You can be 100% confident that he loves you, but you can never truly know 100% unfortunately.
2007-03-04 17:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all don't play games in a relationship.
Second part of life is somtimes taking things at face value. If he says he loves you then enjoy it ,Don't question it .
If you do not feel that feelings are mutual then I would have to say that it's "not true love" Just a huge crush that feels right for the moment.In life you have to enjoy things, love is one of them EVEN if you do "love"a couple people.
2007-03-04 17:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this is normal.
the reason you feel like this is because you are unsure if he may stay loyal to you or you start to think what if this or that happens.
its normal to feel a tiny bit of doubt and thats alright
if you both truely love each other, then there will be no doubt
2007-03-04 17:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by hawaiian_lover1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ther always is, but as time goes by, it goes away hopefully.
I always have a little doubt starting out, as far as trust and if he'll hurt me, or if he loves me as much as I do, and the doubt that if he hurts me, I won't love him as much.
A little doubt sometimes get bigger though, just watch your feelings and see if they change.
2007-03-04 17:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Its always like that when you first really feel that you love someone. But when you really know that you love someone and they love you back, It's no questions to it.
2007-03-04 17:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got the same problem... so if your really unsure if his feelings are true,
test him
put him in a situation where he has no choice but to show his feelings or you can call him a liar
just MAKE SURE you DONT push him to far
2007-03-04 17:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.
2007-03-04 17:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋