He tells me a lot of stuff. One time I asked him what we wer going to do and he said.....well you can see my bed cant you? I was like ummmm yea. I didnt know what to say because Im not going to have sex before I am married.
2007-03-04 09:34:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all i would like to say that i think it's great that your are saving yourself for marriage, and if your boyfirend isn't ok with that then he doesn't really like you. Try asking him to name some of the things about you that he likes, if he just names body parts then dump him, if he seems to accualy like things about your personality then i think you need to just sit him down and tell him how you feel about not having sex before you're married. I fhe tries to get you to change your mind about it then break up with him.
2007-03-04 09:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I of route have believe themes becuase my dad cheated on my mom. of route you would. that is totally everyday. is this everyday for adult men to communicate like that to there friends (possibly merely tryin to gloat or act cool/showoff?). I do imagine that adult men evaluate notes about different women people. of route that doesn't make him love you any a lot less or opt for to be with yet another. Hes not in any respect cheated on me both. He also has alot of ladies that are friends and maximum people of them are grotesque the ladies people being grotesque in a great number of cases have little or no to do with why adult men cheat. they're emotional cheaters a twin of ladies people. yet for some weird and wonderful reason it merely makes me sense so insecure, idono why. i understand that i'm a perfect lady because adult men do hit on me alot and my boyfriend tells me each and each of the time. i guess im merely over reacting. i do not imagine you're overreacting in any respect. i'd confront him about the textual content and ask him what he meant about it. Does all of us have any suggestion, about no longer letting those products get to me? Or a thanks to be extra functional (which i should be) and not in any respect have the urge to look via his telephone or facebook? help please! lol the very undeniable truth that you've the "urge" to look via his issues permits you to carry close that you do not think him. you do not think him because you've a gut intuition telling you that something isn't accurate. believe your self. If it doesn't look accurate, it likely isn't
2016-11-27 21:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he wants a little more then your giving. Your going to find that a lot if your waiting until marriage for sex. 100% of men want sex 99% of the time, so it will be an issue with whoever you are with. Try and find someone that wants to wait too.
2007-03-04 09:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you realize that boys are after sex first and foremost, you'll be alot happier. Whatever you do, don't let him use sex as the only way to keep him. If you don't have interests beyond physical attraction, your relationship is doomed from the beginning - assuming you are looking for a relationship and not companionship.
2007-03-04 09:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes, your bf likes you
however a real guy, like myslef, would not induce a female to pre-marital sex. thats against the Bible, and most relgions
[i take that you do believe in one]
furthermore, thats taking advantage of a girl, so I'd think about whether you really like him or not, and whether you would want this situation to go any further.. for he my attempt to suggest or ask again.
try talking to your parents about what he said. and see what they say, if you're not too sure.
It also depends on how old you are.
a guy has to resect your feeling on this kind of decision. taken that it can not be reversed.
2007-03-04 09:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by muahaha smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Put it like this, to me it seems as if that's what he is looking to have with you. (SEX) If you both can't set down and just have normal conversation with out sex coming up, let him know the real deal. Let him know that you are not having sex be for you get married.
2007-03-04 09:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, I am 21 and I am also waiting to have sex until I am married, I honestly can't think of any reason to stay with this guy, he sounds like a jerk who doesn't respect you or care about your personal happiness... I think he sees you as an object and as a challenge, I think you outta let him go.... :(
2007-03-04 09:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a dog and only into ur looks
ask him what he likes about u and if he sees this going anywhere and if he answers like a dog again dump him
u cant give ue morlas up just because u want to keep a guy
ull regret it
maybe u 2 can just be friends
2007-03-04 17:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being disrespectful with that answer. Make sure you don't lead him on if that is your decision. Most men will not wait until marriage, some will don't get me wrong. Make sure he knows this and don't get yourself into a compromising situation where it's hard to say no.
2007-03-04 09:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t do it;stay pure.I would pay 10,000 dollars to be a virgin again.If he get`s you pregnant where is he gonna be????True love is in marriage with God;all others are just sex and a waste of time.
2007-03-04 09:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋