My boyfriend(32) of 3 months tells me that he too is looking for a serious life-long partner. Recently he told me that he fancies me too much that every time he sees me he can't help thinking too much about having sex. We can only see each other once a week and he literally jumps onto me every time I get into his flat. Sex is great and I think that it's natural to have a strong desire to want your partner physically especially at the start of a relationship. However, he told me that he feels guilty about the fact that sex always comes first when it's also necessary to develop deeper emotional relations to know if I am a potential wife. Because of this he suggested having a few-weeks break and wants to see me again as just a friend, but I am confused. I feel that it requires longer time to build emotional ties than it takes for sexual relations. I don't understand why he want to see me as a friend when he fancies me. What are his true feelings? Is there a chance that we'll get back?
2007-03-04 09:28:53 · 8 answers · asked by pinetreegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im a guy and to be honest with u, he is either a really genuine man or a total waste of time. Obviously I dont know him or all the circumstances so I cant really tell u exactly what is in his head. But follow ur own mind not ur heart- Dont make him out to be something that he might not neccessarily be... Deep down inside u should have the answer.. Think not so hard and u shall find the key....
2007-03-04 09:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Point 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is jumping ur bones as soon as u get to his place then he has no interest in u other than sexually. If he had any sort of feelings for u he would be with u, not see u as a friend. Chances are he is just using that as an excuse to jump someone else. Tell him to make his mind up but that ur not gonna wait around for him.
2007-03-04 17:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you, he's using you as a sex partner.
Don't hold your breath for him coming back, I'm sorry but thats what it usually means. It's not a lot of fun.
If you want him enough, and you think you and him are awesome together, Not just sexually, but as a couple, meaning talking and cuddling, then you should try to get him jealous. Anything else, forget it.
2007-03-04 17:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a fake talk ..
HE doesn't mean that at all ..if he really wanted u for emotionnal relationship ..he wouldn't suggest a break ..he would meet with u outside maybe ..go out all the time ..restaurant,diner,party..anything but his flat (4 a while)..
But what he said (a break) ..!!!!???!!!
Come on gimme a break ..
He's leaving girl...he had what he want ..!!
2007-03-04 17:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 32, ready to settle down when he finds the right girl. As of right now, it sounds as though he just lusts after you. I think he is taking time away so he can figure out if he has more feelings.
2007-03-04 17:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing has happened to me but at age 15. he was seventeen and he was serious bout loving me and wanting to marry me. he maybe be seeking some other sex so he can get it out of his system before returning back to you and knowing that he'll be loyal to you.
chances are that he does love and he does want to be commited to you but before he can do any of that, he may need to get it out of his system(sex) so he can stay loyal to you.
2007-03-04 17:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by hawaiian_lover1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants sex and thats it!
2007-03-04 17:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl move the **** on!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-04 17:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋