I've been riding horses for about 6 years, and I just got this new Polish warm-blood. He's 16'2 hands. But he doesn't seem to like me or feel comfortable with me, not like with my other horses. I don't know how to win him over, I've tried everything. Anyone have any suggestions?
2007-03-04 09:26:06 · 6 answers · asked by Chris K 4 in Sports ➔ Horse Racing
I know his history, he was a carriage horse in Poland, and was treated very well.
2007-03-04 09:31:52 · update #1
MORE OFTEN THAN NOT IT IS THE RIDER THAT IS UNCOMFORTABLE. IF YOU ARE THE SLIGHTEST BIT TENSE THE HORSE CAN FEEL IT.TRY TO RELAX YOURSELF A BIT MORE AND ALLOW THE HORSE TIME TO ADJUST TO YOUR RIDING STYLE. DOGS SENSE FEAR, AND SO DO HORSES. NOT SAYING YOU ARE SCARED, BUT UNSURE OF YOUR NEW RIDE.
2007-03-05 13:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by COWBOY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
It could very well because he is new to you and your stable and is just adjusting. Or, he could just be naturally aloof; some horses are. Keep a close eye on him for any signs of illness at this time, as he could also not be feeling well, and alert a vet immediately if something seems wrong. You might also want to contact his previous owner and have them describe his personality traits to you, perhaps that will give you clues as to the inner workings of this horse and help put your mind at ease. Good luck.
2007-03-04 18:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by YoungShyCareerGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Parelli natural horsemanship. Here is a link to the site:
http://www.parelli.com/
If you browse the site you can view video's of training techniques.
You can also see related programmes on this site:
http://www.horseandcountry.tv/
Time and patience will only achieve so much. Being pro active in establishing a bond of trust takes work and commitment. If we are going to communicate with them it’s easier for us to learn their language than the other way around. The biggest mistake people make in trying to teach horses is, using predator psychology on a prey animal, it just doesn’t work very well. The more we look at things from the horse’s point of view the easier it is for them to understand what we are asking them to learn...
Good luck with your new horse...
2007-03-05 07:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. A new owner and a new stable is a big transition for a horse to make. Give him time to adjust. In the mean time, you can make things easier for him and allow him to get to know you. Spend ample time grooming him before and after each ride. Horse's are physical animals that respond well to touch. Grooming is a bonding experience, and if you rush through it, you miss out on that time. Take him out for a hack on the trail and get out of the riding ring. Spending time together outside of the arena encourages trust. Eventually you'll begin to bond, but give him time. Work within your comfort level for now. Do exercises in the ring that you know you can handle. That way, if your horse becomes unsure of himself, you'll have the confidence to get the both of you through it. Eventually he'll begin to trust you. Just give him the time to get used to you and his new environment.
2007-03-04 18:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by ap1188 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once rode someone's horse and the house that didn't like men because the previous owner beat the horse. The horse only liked women.
2007-03-04 17:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by The Big Shot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just gota give it time hes gota trust u before anything
2007-03-04 19:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by cntrygurl17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋