This girl went out with one of your friends just before going out with you. She tried to crack onto another of your friends before going out with you...She also had a threesome with two people you know AND it was at your brothers house.....
Then she started chasing you, Would a past like this worry you?
2007-03-04 09:14:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eww no i'm not after her (i'm a chick) she's with my brother and they've been together for a few years now.
2007-03-04 09:21:51 · update #1
oh and its all true, i've not only heard it from her but from other people 2
2007-03-04 09:22:47 · update #2
Sounds to me like the woman just wants to play. Short term I wouldn't want to get involved. Eventually she might settle down but given her past, how would you ever really know she wasn't still doing things on the side.
2007-03-04 09:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Justin H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are more worried about it then your brother. Her past doesn't seem to worry him. He's probably secure enough to know that she is with him for a reason, and not with all the others in her past for a reason.
It sounds like you are passing moral judgment on her where it is not your place to do so. She has done nothing wrong. She is just a wonderfully sexual woman. What's wrong with that? Of course, a strong, sexual woman makes many less secure people uncomfortable.
Why is it okay for a guy to be this way, but not a woman? The double standard is not only ignorant and hurtful to women, it's outdated and should be completely abolished.
Personally, I'd love her for her past and present and our possible future together. And I'd never, ever ask her to change. And guaranteed, because I'd accept her for who she is she'd never, ever betray me.
2007-03-04 23:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a hook-up, not a relationship. It also sounds as if this girl has some serious self-esteem issues. I would be worried about STD's more than her reputation. If you truly like this girl, give her a chance, get tested, but give her a chance
2007-03-04 17:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by smp1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! yes! yes! Being a chic, I don't think this girl is so ready to change for anyone. If you're hoping to have a relationship with this chic, i mean a good one, don't get your hopes up. From what you say, she's not worth it. Believe me! there are better girls out there who are worth your time, she's not one of them.
2007-03-04 17:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girls a freak. thats all i have to say. but if u want a long term relationship w/ someone like that, then just know she may cheat. she may not, but temptation is everywhere, and she seems like the type to fall pretty easily. be careful w/ girls like that
2007-03-04 17:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by the gurl next door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently your not the only one she is chasing. So don't act like it. I wouldn't give her the gratification of having me also.
2007-03-04 17:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are listening to too much gossip, and probably not even half of it is true.
If you like her, forget what others say, and just enjoy her company.
Remember to treat her like a lady at all times.
2007-03-04 17:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES!
That's gross.
But if you just want to get laid, go for it, if you want a serious relationship then I suggest you look elsewhere.
2007-03-04 17:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course.
2007-03-04 17:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, sounds like a fun ride, just don't get attached
2007-03-04 17:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋