I just figuered this out. I'm going throught this with my lady. She has her things to do, like choosing college, prepearing for ACT's/SAT's, etc. Basically all those things that are going to prepare this girl to became a strong woman. I'm just a guy in college who has to overcome my fears about issues that I'm having. I'm afraid of losing her...But I told her that I really support her all the way. Even if she has to make a sacrifice (you know what I mean). I have to let it happen. I'm not one who will stop her dreams. And she knows this herself. She gotta do what she gotta do. Sad, but oh well, right? This sucks because I Love this girl. And she Loves me. I mean, this girl has a big plan. As for me, I'm just starting fresh in the fall. Starting all over new. And try to build a plan in what I want to become. Damn, never thought that our plans where going to get in the way. But we're still together. Since Dec 24 of 2005. And I have supported her ever since. I...
2007-03-04 09:14:27 · 6 answers · asked by Drivliam 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have supported her ever since. Yup, since day one. As of right now, she's doing her things, I'll start on mine. Staying on top of things that will make me responsible, you know. I just wanted to tell you my story. And I hope you have some remedy to it. A piece of advice. Whether about my story or in general. By the way, I have said to many that if something happens between a couple, there's always another love out there in the future. In other words, you'll have many loves in life. As for me, I jsut not following it. I refuse to. I don't want to find another one.
2007-03-04 09:19:30 · update #1
*thought, my bad.
2007-03-04 09:22:00 · update #2
College interferes with a lot of plans. Try to hang on, but sometimes you have to let go because each one wants different things. Then it's time to make a new life and a new beginning.
2007-03-04 09:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love itself does no longer harm, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that it takes some "soreness" to enhance & mature. Like achieving any own purpose like dropping weight, quitting alcohol, determining to purchase Masters degree... there will be what I call "turning out to be pains" which will sense terrible while you're in it. yet interior the long-term those hurts could make you a extra effective individual. that's all the way you look at it: Glass a million/2 finished or a million/2 empty.
2016-10-02 09:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember to keep your studies first, and take the time you do have and make it special for the both of you. Study together if you can! Leave special little notes or emails just to confirm your love for each other.
Love is complicated but worth the fight.
2007-03-04 09:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by RaginCajun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both are willing to still stay together and work things through it'll be fine. love is complicated and its a very rocky road!!! i am as well going through the same thing. my boyfriend is going off to college and he has constantly talked to me bout marriage. but right now, we working together to make our love stronger than ever.
be commited to her.
and best of luck!
2007-03-04 09:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by hawaiian_lover1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is code for complicated
2007-03-04 09:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by StreetPunk93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea.
2007-03-04 09:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋