ex.bf who a few days ago poped up after 7 months without contact.He drove around my house looking to see if i was around at 7 a.m when usually walk my dog.He works nights and goes to school during the day.He asked me to hang out and then tried to hook up with me even though he has had a gf for 9 months.I said no and felt uncomfortable.Anyway i still have feeling for this guy he was my first everything.He is the only guy i have ever had sex with and i trust him.I took him up on his offer a day ago out of anger for my own bf cheating on me and i felt num afterward.For some reason my sex drive has come back .Is it a bad idea to call him again?
2007-03-04 09:11:52 · 5 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friends think i should wait till next week to call him if at all to think more on this?
2007-03-04 09:16:27 · update #1
Listen to your friends. You need to clear your thoughts now.
2007-03-04 09:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i think its a good idea. whatever happens, he is your ex, u will feel comfortable around him and it will help you to forget about your current bf cheating. i see nothing bad about going back to your ex-bf. you should always keep in mind though that men mostly come back because of 2 reasons (there are exceptions of course like true love) : 1.some other girl dumped him, kicked him out or just refused him and he needs to heal or 2. he wants sex, but cant be bothered to find someone new.
2007-03-04 17:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two deserve whatever happens to you if you are going to cheat on the ones you are with. Why not break up and do this right. His girlfriend is going to be hurt if you don't, and she has never done anything to you has she? Her guy is cheating with you, like your guy cheated with someone else.
2007-03-04 17:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-04 17:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Minnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a bad idea.
2007-03-04 17:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋