ok so he screamed at me about not telling him how I feel so I did then he called me arrogant said he really likes me...the next day I txt him saying I miss you and he replied do you really, show it I called him after he txt me and he didnt answer...one day later left him a voicemail no response...two days later txt him and he finally txt back i'm okay, sorry I didn't call...I responded are you mad and no response until Friday when he got off work he acted like everything was fine said he wanted to come over I said no...he called the next day and said he wanted to give me time to calm down I tried to talk to him about what happened he wouldn't he said he was upset and didn't want to dwell on it so I said I'm sick of your bs don't call anymore he txt me later do you really wanna stop talking or do you wanna tell me the problem...I txt i'm really emotional right now does that make you feel better he wrote I don't wanna argue...what should I do just leave it alone?
2007-03-04 09:10:19 · 15 answers · asked by Ginger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it alone. He's playing games with you for whatever reason, to boost his ego, maybe. Don't tolerate it. Try not to even let it bother you. Instead, consider whether or not it's worth all the headache he is putting on you. He is not trying to prove to you what he is expecting you to prove to him. It's a two way street. Remember that. You decide whether you can handle this and all the potential BS that comes with it. Be straight with him. If you care about him, give him a chance to prove to you that it's mutual. If he slacks, well, do what you think is best for you, all things considered. Good luck.
2007-03-04 09:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great to try to avoid an argument. But in some cases, it can make things worse. If you don't discuss things and solve the problem, it will come up again and only get worse. My advice would be that if the argument was over something that bothers you (whether or not you think it SHOULD bother you) try to talk about it. If it was just you overreacting, let it go. Explain to him that even though it may not seem like a big deal to him, it's important to you and you would really like to discuss it like adults without screaming and yelling at each other. If he is not willing to do that for you, he's not worth it.
2007-03-04 09:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you must be teenagers. Sounds like alot of goofy games. I would say go ahead and talk to him if you really like him but also don't dwell on him calling you back or not so much . Go have some fun if he doesn't call you back. Life is short and go ave a good time with friends . he will get the point that as much as you like him you still are willing to have fun without him. You do need to talk about your feelings and if he isn't willing to hear them then find someone that is mature enough to hear them. Also you need to tell him if you are going to talk he actually wil need to be there when you need to talk and not just when he needs to talk. Good luck!!!
2007-03-04 09:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by teasab75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so I've kinda been through something similiar..more than once....heh.
Anyways, What I ended up doing was stearing clear of these guys actually for long periods of time....some longer than others. Now....that it's been awhile.... I've begun talking to them again.. like human beings, actual conversations. I'm still upset about what happened but I'm getting over it.
The time apart really does help.
BUT every relationship is different and what works for me may not be so sound for you.
Best of Luck to You!
2007-03-04 09:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by dollbabe92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are able to tell him to renounce calling with out crushing his ego. If he calls in simple terms tell him you're sorry in case you gave him the thought you have an activity in him and which you will possibly delight in if he might provide up calling you. If that fails, then be extra direct. I asked you to stop calling/texting. i visit forget approximately approximately destiny calls. If he nonetheless does not get the image then he's to thick skulled to seize any request. besides the undeniable fact that, you're able to be able to could desire to apply a 2 x 4 board placed completely alongside the fringe of his head, just to get his interest.
2016-10-17 06:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop and think whether you really like him or not. Is it really worth it. If i was you, i wouldn't stress over it. If he wants to act like that, then let him act like that ALONE. sometimes a girl does 2 much in a relationship just to be with someone. And if he doesn't step up to the plate, then u just have to let him go. theres no need to chase behind anyone. Now its his time to chase after u
2007-03-04 09:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by TheTroubledOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
justmytake.... I think when he said do you really .. well show it and then didnt call or txt .. he was waiting for you to show it. He said he really liked you and thats why he finally gave in and responded. men are trying to figure us females out just as much as we are them I think. i dont know.. justmytake. Good Luck
2007-03-04 09:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you can at least let him know what the problem is before you try to kick him to the curb. Apparently, he likes you cause he keeps texting you and calling you so he can figure out what he has done! You're asking us so 9 times outta 10 you want to keep talking to him cause you're concerned!
2007-03-04 09:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by sweetmindangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ginger, i think you should totally dump this guy that so "madly loves" you. If he treats you this way, why even bother and try to deal with him? I know and you know that there are better people out there that will truly love you and respect you. also who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I'm only 15, but i know that if a guy treats you this certain way, then he is sooo not worth it girl!!
2007-03-04 09:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Krista Nielsen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know much about your relationship. But maybe relationship counsiling or just talking to him in person, texting isnt helping the communication in your relationship. Its much better to confront him and ask if he really wants something between you two or if its not worth it. You decide if you want him.
2007-03-04 09:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by kar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋