so i have never hit a girl in my life or been disrespect to them. But latelty I met a girl, who tells me all these stories about. She tells me that she has rough past behind her, and she is scarred for life, and she gets really scared when a guy tries to tell her to do something that she doesnt want to. Now for some reason I like pick on her and that drives her crazy. For some reason the idea of dominance over her fees so interesting to me. Idk why?
2007-03-04 09:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats very wrong! a girl opened up to you and all you did was use the info against her.....thats horrbile
2007-03-04 09:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by K-LA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That isn't good. You must like the fact that you can gain dominance over her. control freak. type of thing. If that is what it is about, the control thing? then ask yourself if you did ever treat her really bad, how would you then feel? does it excite you or would you feel bad? then once you get that answer you will know if you can live with it or not. some people like to have someone else control them, others despise it. but don't take advantage of the fact that she has already been in a bad situation and she does not deserve to be in another one. let her heal from her past relationship, don't make her to where she can never trust any man again. cuz that is what you will do if you continue on treating her that way.. thats unfair not only to her, but to the next man, who may love her. and yet she won't beable to love him back because of the emotional scars created.
2007-03-04 17:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your going to do that...do this girl a favor and just stay away. you have no idea how detremential her life has been in this past...if something like picking on her is going to upset her..why are you being so selfish to cause her more pain? Chances are the girl has been through enough...so if you feel the absoultle need to pick on someone or tease someone even if its joking around...find another girl...let this girl heal...she needs it, not you making it worse
2007-03-04 17:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by KOOSE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you different than the guys she met before? You are becoming the same guy who treated her like crap. You are taking advantage of her because she is vulnerable; you are the wrong person for her. I hope she find someone else
2007-03-04 17:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ally cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, that kind of IS wrong. you might be turning into the guy in her life before yourself. dominance may make YOU feel good, but it kills her inside, with the utter resemblence from her past. BELIEVE ME, i know.
2007-03-04 17:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Brightside 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, you're going to be a Loser Jerk piece of Crap.
Stay away from her, she'll bring out the worst in you.
2007-03-04 17:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good situation. She brings out the worst in you. Find someone else or you will regret it.
2007-03-04 17:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is so wrong. thats the last thing you should be doing! she totally trusted you in saying all that and now youre making things worse. i think you should deeply rethink why you are doing this, and then stop.
2007-03-04 17:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by x_unknownprincess_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl drives me nuts just hearing about her. she is tryin to be the needy female, and make u feel bad for her, i hate that dont you?even tho im a girl
2007-03-04 17:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by watergoddess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because she makes you feel inferior to her. Which you obviously are.
2007-03-04 17:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋