i want to have sex with someone but dont know if it will hurt or even how to do it, any advice?

Question

anything will help!

Answer 1

if you don't know how to do it then you shouldn't be doing it. look around on the internet and educate yourself about sex. don't go into it blindly. the more knowledge you have the more ready you'll be when the time comes. and don't just have sex with anyone because you want to do it. have sex with someone you won't regret having sex with in the future. as for the pain....some people don't have any and some people do. make sure you're well lubed so things slide easily and create less friction. here's a website that may help you understand some stuff....
http://www.coolnurse.com/sex_stuff.htm

Answer 2

Irresponsible sex can hurt a lot and for a very long time. I mean, feelings can be hurt and a pregnancy could hurt much more if you are too young. Physically, it shouldn't hurt the guy if you are both gentle and loving. I've heard that it can be painful for the girl during her first time. As in most cases, however, when in doubt, it's better not to do anything. Just inform yourself better and look deep into your heart and conscience. Good luck!

Answer 3

How old are you? I think the right age to start sex is anywhere between 16-17ish
and even some will disagree with me but if you are not there yet you need to wait.

but if you are watch porn and get really horny and when you do have sex, you have to make sure you really want it otherwise it will hurt very bad. Sex does hurt the first time unless you are really wet and want it really badly then it won't hurt as bad.

Answer 4

If you are a guy, physically no, it shouldn't hurt. If you are a woman, YES! The first time hurts. Make sure you are with someone that cares about you, not just getting off themselves. You may want to wait awhile until you are older though.

Answer 5

Your probably a little young to be doing said business is asking this question. With that said the only advice I can give you is just to take it slow the first time. Everything is going to be awkward the first time, and yeah it may be discomfotable. All I can say is try to be as relaxed as you can and make sure it's really what you want to do.

Answer 6

first go to your doctor get checked out guy or gal you should do this. Find what ever type of protection that works for you, and get some of that Kay warming gel thing. if you really want to have sex take it slowly and yes it hurts. also look at books, I'm not sure about the flicks but use protection.

Answer 7

you shouldn't try having sex. It comes when it comes. You should either wait to get married or do it with someone that you love a lot. Sex is not a game and it is a major responsability. Wait untill you are ready.

Answer 8

I don't know if you area guy or girl, but it's definitely a lot harder for guys to be "good at it". It won't hurt if you are a guy, but you are usually considered the one who should lead sex. If you area girl, it really isnt that hard to do it but yes it will probably hurt, but just the emotions make it hard to deal with it.

Answer 9

If you don't have a clue how to do it now, then you have no business doing it. Grow up some more, and get married so that it will mean something when you do finally do it.

Answer 10

Of course you won't want to hear this but... wait until you're married. It's frustrating because I know u can't identify with what I'm saying now. But one day you might. WAIT!!!