You just slept with him, You're ready to go home and you don't have a car. You say you're going home now and he says - "Okay.. bye"
He doesn't drive you home (he has a car...and legs mind you) but makes you walk home at night time back to your house which is about 2 blocks away. About a 10min walk or maybe a bit less.
You've only been going out for a short amount of time too.
Would you be angry at that, would you stay with someone that didn't walk you home at night time?
How would you feel about that?
(it didn't happen to me, it happened to a friend, its a fair while down the track and they're still together but do you think something like that shows what kind of person he is?)
2007-03-04 08:46:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow what a creep. What a loser. Your friend is dating the wrong guys.
2007-03-04 08:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time i met my wife i walk her home over 1.5 km. The only thing is i never left and we are still together to this day and that happened 3 years ago.
From the first day i walked her home i still hold doors open for her (car or home doors), pull her chair out for her, go shopping for cloths with her, talk to her when she feels down and cook dinner quite often for us if we don't dine out at a restaurant.
I love her very much not just for her beauty but because she is who she is and i would never change that for the world.She means the world to me and love every day that i spend with her .
also she puts up with a lot off my boyish attitude.
It does not take a lot off effort or energy guys to treat the woman you love with respect and kindness i know i do and i get it back just as much.
2007-03-04 17:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by luckylovelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is asking for heart ache with this relationship. This is just the begining, How could he not have the kind heart to walk her home. I think the guy is selfish, and he really doesn't care for your friend. It is only a sexual thing for him, and he will keep on having sex with her and treating her that way for as long as she allows it.
2007-03-04 16:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Proverbs 31 women 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why it is always better to get to know someone and their character before you sleep with them. As soon as you give yourself to someone, you accept what you get. It is unfortunate, but if she would have known anything about him and his disregard for her personal safety or his inability to show any emotion outside of the bedroom, she might not have slept with him. I don't think it's ok that he is unconcerned and acting like a loser, but she should have got to know him first.
2007-03-04 16:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt she just ask him to walk her home then? Maybe he was wondering why she wanted to leave anyways. I don't think that shows anything really, he probably hasn't even thought twice about this!
2007-03-04 16:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did she get there? If she walked, maybe he didn't know and thought she had a car outside.
2007-03-04 17:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Toeless_Joe_Jackson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be so Mad! tell her not to waste her time even if he hasnt done it again! because he will do it in the future or atleast something that is related to it!!
2007-03-04 16:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by luh luh la reee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is stupid to stay with a guy like that. this would have ended the relationship if it happened to me.
2007-03-04 16:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ally cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used her for what HE wanted and she sould never talk to him again and break up w/ him if they do go out.my cousin had been treated the same way and she dumped him after that!
2007-03-04 16:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kylah O'Neal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him! What kind of guy would do that? That's not a very nice guy to be with.
2007-03-04 16:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋