I hate his children. I can't stand him!!! I am 27 he is 47 with three children. I need to be with him for another year, how can I accomplish my goal but I can't stand him even though my school is extremely important to me. I am extremely unhappy??? What should I do???
2007-03-04 08:39:58 · 11 answers · asked by Vero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why do you need to be with him? Are you using him for money?....He should leave you. You sound ungrateful.
2007-03-04 08:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what your fear is and then face it. Seriously I'm in the same situation. I have 2 months left of college and I've been with my guy for the last year. He's controlling and I hate being with him most of the time. I feel like I'm walking on "eggshells" when I'm around him and I never know what "mood" he's going to be in. But I am FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT on him. You don't need to be with him for another year. Your just scared. Have some faith in yourself. Get a part-time job move into the dorms whatever just don't waste anymore time being miserable. It won't change unless you do something about it. Otherwise tough it up and deal with him and his kids until you get your degree. its less fun to stay but its more comfortable cause you already know it sucks but your okay. if you leave you don't know what the hell may happen. If you want peace make a decision and stick with it till you reach the goal. Don't go back and forth with ideas in your mind it's a waste of energy. Well good luck
2007-03-05 08:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him, start a new life, you will find a way to make things work, but what ever you do don't start another relationship, until you have finished with school, Don't be unhappy another day, get out now.
2007-03-04 09:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by niddlie diddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing with a dude that's 20 years your senior, why do you have to be with him for another year, why are you putting his kids through the abuse of being around a woman who can't stand them. Brake up with this guy, quit stringing him along and quit stringing his kids along.
2007-03-04 10:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Coyote81 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is holding u there for a year? if you dont want to be with someone then dont it ends up huurting you, him and the kids stop being selfish and think about the big picture rather than your self
2007-03-04 10:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-04 08:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by Huberta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you have to be with him for another year??
2007-03-04 08:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want to be there you can leave. I don't understand why you "need" to be with him another year.
And what exactly is your goal...
2007-03-04 08:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve your unhappiness because you are using him.
2007-03-04 09:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by Redawg J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone then. Why another year. Pack your bags and leave, you are nothing but a user.
2007-03-04 09:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Chrishonda Alston 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋