his dad kicked him out and he is living w/ his grandparents and he was suppose to come w/ me originally and even brought some of his stuff over and its still at my house.
2007-03-04 08:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anthony's baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should be glad that he had the sense not to do that. He should not let the coinicidence that his dad kicked him out make an important life decision for him. He has to make the decision on his own for the right reasons. Explain to him that you appreciate that he was smart not to jump for the wrong reason but that there are really good reasons that he considered before and should consider now.
2007-03-04 08:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Benji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His Grandparents with morals, may have had a big part in his up bringing, and he would not want to turn them away, to move in with you.
He's no dummy,he has a safe place to stay, with food and clean clothes, and they have his best interest in mind. Sounds to me like these Grandparents may help this young man make something of himself. Many a Grandparent has.~~~~
As for you, Why would you want to get involved when he has family ?? Are you sure you aren't part of the problem in the first place? Shame on you, if you are.~When he gets old enough and ready to marry, chances are it will be with the opposite of you.~Jill
2007-03-04 18:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want to wait until he can help out with bills, (I just say that because it seems since he was staying with his dad that he did not have income) But back to the question. He just does not want to put to much on you and be thankful for that because there are a lot of guys who try to use their girlfriends for every and everything they can, he's giving you the respect you deserved as a woman. Do not get mad at him or think anything wrong unless he gives you a cause to.
2007-03-04 16:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably afraid of the whole "commitment" issue aka "what will this mean if i move in with her?"
Staying with his grandparents is a lot safer, and he still has all his freedom. He doesnt have to ask you to go out with his friends, etc. or talk to you when he comes home at 3 am.
2007-03-04 16:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by love anyway 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to live with a man you are not married to? And why do you want to live with someone who doesnt want to live with you?
2007-03-04 16:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better question, why are you rushing him to move in with you?
2007-03-04 16:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Debt Free! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋