Does she like me?

Question

Theres this girl, I started talking to her. We would spend time chatting, even staying up really late instant messaging. We hung out at the mall, played video games, she even offered me the gum that was in her mouth. We've spoken on the phone, I've made her laugh, smile...There are other things that she has done too that made me think that she may like me. Just the other day i confessed to her and told her i liked her. Should I have waited? Should I call her? She may have been surprised that I actually told her that. Maybe she does like me but is afraid to tell me. I dont know!! HELP ME!!! Where is Will Smith as Alex Hitchens when you need him? Help me Oprah! Help me Tom CRUISEEE!!!

well, recently her laptop crashed, so we havent been able to talk as much...but after i told her that i liked her, i called her the next day just to talk, and make sure that, you know, she didnt hate me or something...but she said she didnt think i would have told her that i liked her. She seemed okay with it though, and made it clear that just because i told her that i like her, she wasnt going to stop hanging out with me or talking to me, you know? sooo....yeah......i dont know how to find out if she likes me........

oh, and i was instant messagin her this one time...and since she knew i worked at a clothing store, she asked if we had polos...and i told her yes..then she said.."i want one....and you have to make it for me"...dont know if that helps, and the store i work in is only for men...and no she is not into wearing mens clothing on a regular basis, lol....dont know if this helps lol haha

Answer 1

Less talk, more action my friend. You should not have told her you liked her, because that instantantly destroys all anticipation, suspense, and challenge she might have felt (these things cause attraction). This is why playing "hard to get" is so effective. But you can rectify the situation. Here's what you do: You had the guts to tell her you liked her, but the longer you wait to make a move, the less she will respect you and her attraction to you will drop. She probably already sees you as a toy. Remember the number one rule is that girls love attention. She knows she can get it from you anytime she wants, and you are very predictable in this sense. TAKE THAT AWAY, IMMEDIATELY. Stop hanging out with her for a while, and start ignoring her, playing the attention game. Give her a little dose of attention every now and then, but nothing like you used to (no trips to the mall, no late night chatting, nothing like that). Trust me, this will drive her crazy. Girls can't stand it when they lose some guy's interest and are unable to control you. If possible, show interest in other girls and make sure she sees it. You see, I have been in your shoes in the past. I have been toyed with. I used to write notes, tell girls right upfront that I liked them, all the common mistakes young guys make. Now, if you're still with me, after playing the attention game, I want you to make a move the next time you see her... not by words, by action. I want you to go in for the kiss. This takes balls, I know, but now that she already knows you like her, it is your only real chance to get her. Perhaps, if you play the game smoothly enough, this won't be necessary, because SHE will come to you. Good luck, and let us know how it goes.

Answer 2

Well yea it might have surprised her a little bit but that is something that i would not worry about and besides most girls like it when a guy can stand up and tell a girl that he likes her and that takes some guts! So you get points for that one!! It is very possible that she likes you and is scard to tell you! but if she really likes you then she wil bring it up the next time you two talk! lol I'm not Oprah, but I hope I helped some! Good Luck

Answer 3

You didn't mention how she reacted. Sounds like you have a good start at something though if you spend so much quality time with each other. If she is used to you calling her, I'd go ahead and do it.

If your nervous about approaching her or calling her after your confession, her best girl friend would be the best person to talk to, to see what your girl is thinking about all of this.

Answer 4

I think she does like you I mean after all those things you guys did together, of course she likes you and It was fine that you told her what you felt, but if she took it as a shock it's probably because of one personal problem she has you know with her family maybe her dad or mom won't let her date or have a boyfriend and maybe that's the reason why she took it like that, but you should try to call her see what happens, maybe she'll explain.

Answer 5

I think uve done the right thing...being honest is the best solution ever,moreover it seems like she pretty like you..but what was her reaction when u told her?!give more details so we can sort out something more...btw i think u should wait something like 4-5 days and then send her a message ,a normal one and ask her out to see how she behaves...good luck

Answer 6

You rang?
Well, I can tell you if a girl takes
the gum right out of her mouth
it must be at least infatuation..so that is a start.

Answer 7

she might like you, or she might just like you as a really good friend. but only way to find out is to talk to her, she can't read your mind so you HAVE to tell her just how you feel to get somewhere. talking always helps.

p.s. love the last line =)

Answer 8

awwww that is so cute. you sound like a funny guy i am sure she prolly likes you especailly if she spent so much time talking to you!

Answer 9

sounds like u are dating already LOL

Answer 10

you sound sweet she 'd be lucky to have you !