theres this boy that ive known 4 like 3 months although ive only met him in person like 5/6 times we hv regular deep convos on msn bout random stuf fi have recently found out from friendd tht he fancys me nd im reli worried hes going 2 ask me out out coz i dnt like him intht way at all... hes very feminmine. i thought he was gay on first meeting him but hes not.. he always hints 2 me bout liking me but does'nt actually say it.. he acts very jealous when im with my other close boy mates and has tld me he dislikes my male best friend etc plz help i dnt wnt 2 ruin the friendhip or lead him on in any way wat can i do ??? x
2007-03-04 08:26:56 · 5 answers · asked by nicky s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really want to keep his friendship, you will have to be straight with him whether it hurts his feelings or not. It will hurt him less if you are honest than to let him figure it out for himself because he will feel like a fool by that point. Just be careful how you say your words, but be straight. Don't leave room for hope if there really is none. He will, at the very least, respect you for this.
2007-03-04 08:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know upfront that you only want to be friends. If he's already jealous of your male friends then he'd probably turn out to be a controlling guy and you don't want that. Whatever you do don't leave him on to believe anything other than the truth and if he can't accept just being friends then he really must not of thought that much about you in the first place. Good Luck and be careful with that guy.
2007-03-04 08:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very confused and so is the whole situation. Why don't you just go your own way and be happy and unconfused?
2007-03-04 08:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest....u will feel alot better it's better for him to know the truth then to play games with him
2007-03-04 08:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him. if he is your friend he will completely understand.
2007-03-04 08:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋