this guy i've been seeing for a while has children and he keeps saying that he doesn't i've seen pictures of the kids from his friends and on myspace......i told him about it and he keeps denying it ......i feel that he's uncomfortable telling me but i want him to know that its okay all my friends have kids except me i love kids so i dont know why he's hiding this from me people that know him are also saying that he just went through a divorce but he tells me that he was never married or has kids even though that's not true. How can i get him to be comfortable and tell me the truth? i'm not going to treat him different because of his past and i want him to understand that because if he doesn't it will mess us up.
2007-03-04 08:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront him with all the information that you had in your question. If he still denies having children or ever being married, start looking for a new guy. This is not how normal people behave.
2007-03-04 08:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by mouska7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who is a liar, and who doesn't trust you enough to tell you the truth. Any man who is willing to lie about having kids will lie about anything and everything. It's more unfair to his kids that he won't take responsibility for them than it is to you. They are the innocents in his games. You should leave him.
2007-03-04 16:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just wrote and how you feel. if he won't listen and might interupt, write him a letter. maybe you could get some presents for them or something to show him you're serious and you care
2007-03-04 16:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like to me he doesnt want to be truthful about anything so personally i wouldnt trust him about anything tell him u will leave him if he doesnt tell u about this stuff.. u have a right to know
2007-03-04 16:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋