She acts like she's 13. My friend expects me to be friends with her because I'm friends with him.In my eyes I see him as a child molester and its embarassing to go anywhere with him and her. Is this socially acceptted in todays society? Or am I just being a prude?
2007-03-04 08:16:18 · 15 answers · asked by aj_ozone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're not being a prude and if, indeed, she's a minor then he might get arrested for because the fact she lies about her age is no defense. I know a guy who was dating a "woman" that he thought was 21 and, later, it turned out that she was 16 and he got arrested for it. It's now a permanent part of his record! He's labeled a sex offender. He's now married to a lady that I worked with and it affects them in many ways, like he has to register as a sex offender. Lots of people still believe "birds of a feather flock together" so it could affect you and your reputation if he's dating someone so young. I'm with you. If I was in your shoes, I would nto accompany them. If you're not comfortable in that situation, steer clear.
2007-03-04 08:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Five or 10 years difference is socially acceptable, but 25-30 years is ridiculous. He needs to grow up mentally and find someone his own age. She is only looking for a father figure. She gives him the perks because it's the only way she gets attention....sad really.....but true. And absolutely not are you being prude. I totally agree with you. For the mean time give her motherly advice and you will see what I mean, find out about her, like where are her parents so on and so forth. Then maybe you can explain it to your friend and he will see why she is with him.
2007-03-04 16:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
--what you said----She acts like she's 13. My friend expects me to be friends with her because I'm friends with him.In my eyes I see him as a child molester and its embarassing to go anywhere with him and her. Is this socially acceptted in todays society? Or am I just being a prude? -----------------------------------
what i say----
okay you ARENT being prude, at all!!!! its perfectly FINE to be worried bout this situation!!! i think u should talk to him, about the age difference, her imaturity, if you dont want to be straight forward about his, if ur out and she says something very imature give a wierd look [[[the what in the world look]]]] and look at the guy,your friend, he'll get it!
remember though, if shes under 18, its illegal, and also remember, if shes younger its illegal and you have every right to deffend like CRAZY!!!!!!!!!
how to find out her age without snooping?????
if shes going somewhere her drivers license,,,her family,,,,her friends, but dont be strighforward when asking, dont be like can i see your drivers license??? pull urs out and ask a question like, does urs have that on it??? soemething like that
message me for more help
good luck!
2007-03-04 16:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most people will probably think it's his daughter. Don't worry so much about what other people think. Hopefully this will pass. Unless your friend has and is willing to spend lots of money on this girl, she'll move on rather quickly.
2007-03-04 16:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is to Young for him if she was 20.
2007-03-04 16:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no thats sick if she looks like a child and acts like one what other than sex do they have in common? nothing its not accepted but is gossiped about stay away before they arrest u as an acessory to child molestation
2007-03-04 16:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by jt_justene 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
does it really matter if it is 16 or 20, they are still say to young for your friend.
2007-03-04 16:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by d r 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is under the legal age of consent, your friend could be in very big trouble indeed.
2007-03-04 16:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by I am the Badger Princess. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No your being safe. If he is aware that she is underage, then he is being a criminal. If he wants to continue, then cut contact with him. It is not worth being drug into a bad situation just because your friend wants to be stupid.
2007-03-04 16:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by fly guy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it's weird but if she is old enough there is really nothing you can do. If your friendship isn't very strong where this can divide you then maybe you weren't friends at all
2007-03-04 16:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by drownarose 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋