What does it all mean?

Question

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Anyways, she always brings up a situation where guys (many of them recently) confesses they likes her and she alway tells me she blows them off. She even goes as far as pasting her conversations in a chatbox for me to read. She has claimed that i am like a best frien d to her and that she is my personal stalker. Why is she doing this?

I feel like this is a warning (like dun ruin the friendship)? I do see her as a good friend though.

Reasons i might think otherwise are that she spends time during her work to write me letters, calls me during breaks to grab food, and quotes chat conversation from and puts it into her profile.

Is she trying to make me jealous because i feel like this is more intimidating?

Answer 1

I think you need to get a life and a real live girlfriend who will go out with you and perhaps fall in love with you. Chatting, texing, stalking, what the heck is this? Creepy!

Answer 2

Sounds to me like she is trying to make you notice her... see that other men find her desirable and so should you. It definitely looks like she'd like to move past the friend phase of the relationship.

It really depends on how you feel about her of course. Do you like her more than as a friend? If you don't, I'd sit down with her and just tell her how you think she's a really great girl but you'd feel more honored if she'd be just your friend. You don't want to mess up a great thing etc etc. Now if you do like her, for goodness sakes put the girl out of her misery and ask her out or something! (lol)

Answer 3

I think if you are not sure. Just ask. As you are good friends she would understand why and say you don't want to rune the friendship as it means alot to you.
If I was her then I would understand.