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Ok, I love having sex with my boyfriend but it seems I get mad cause I want to have sex everyday. And We get in big fight like even thinking of leaving him. Am I addicted or is it my age (22)?

He says I'm probably sick or crazy about sex but I tell him that he's gay cause he doesn't want to have sex with me.

I know I'm overreacting but if I get mad that means I'm addicted to sex?

2007-03-04 07:53:31 · 20 answers · asked by Mom2aGirlandaBoy 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Also I like to watch porn and Masturbate almost everyday is that bad?

2007-03-04 08:03:14 · update #1

20 answers

Wanting to have sex every day at 22 is not abnormal. Aparently you have more of a sex drive than he does. It is unusal that he does not at that age. Most 20 something males would be happy to have sex every day, but some do not. Fighting does nothing to help the male libido. Does he have alot of stress at school and/or work? Is he on medication? All these things can affect his drive.

While sex is not everything, it being in imbalance can strain a relationship. I once had a girl friend that posed a similar problem. While we were great team in most aspects, sex was not one of them. Excepting our first time, she never wanted anything but intercourse. I'm the kind of guy that the kissing, cuddling and forplay makes for great intercourse. Without it, I don't last or get deep satisfaction. Sex to her was only when she felt like it, and just straight intercourse with her on top.

I stuck with it for a while. I tried to compromise, hoping we'd compromise in to at least a couple times a week and she'd become more "intimate", but it never happened. I could not live like that. Being around the person that turns you on and knowing that your needs and desires are not being fulfilled becomes frustrating down to the point that it's stressful.

You need to do some soul searching on this relationship. Weigh the pro's and the con's. If the pro's merit trying to work on this then you need to talk to him about it. You two need to come to a happy medium with your sexualities. If he is unwilling to compromise, says he is, but doesn't follow through, or the cons made trying not worth it, you need to let go and move on. There are plenty of guys out there that would happily have sex most every day. I'm sure you could find one who is otherwise compatible with you.

I hope this helps. Good luck :-)

2007-03-04 08:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 3 0

Some people have different sex drives than others and your getting upset isn't helping any and causing alot of stress in your relationship. It shouldn't be the quantity but the quality of what you get from your sexual relationship. You may either want to buy some adult toys or find a different boyfriend.

2007-03-04 07:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

iv,e been there 2 times sex is good uless your having problems in my case there were 2 problems 1 extra boy toys showing up and she called me gay because she shut me down sexualy because she was already fullfilled during tha day while i was at work so i shut her down when it was my turn tit 4 tat after 30 days she was wondering what was going on so she called me gay what a laugh she had no clue.yes i found sex outside because she did other than that i was happywith her good looks nice bod oh yes i was in love with her but once she cheated all hell brokr loose i still think of her tho what a women

2007-03-11 22:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0 0

No You are Not Addicted Hun ! it's maybe the pressure of your boyfriend not wanting to have sex MAKES you want to do it so don't worry It is going to be fine

2015-06-27 11:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 2 0

It sounds as though there are other serious relationship problems, starting with communication, if you fight every day. Sex drive varies from person to person and can be affected by a wide variety of things including medication. If you really want to save your relationship, then seek counseling for the both of you. If you not willing to learn to communicate without fighting, then end the relationship for both of your sakes and find a new guy.

2007-03-04 08:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1 1

I am 26 and I think about sex all day long even when I am getting it. I don't feel addicted to it but you need to find someone who likes it as much as you do. Trust me most guys will love that about you. Or you can get a booty call on standby for when he goes to work or whatever. Those guys are great you don't have to listen to their BS.

2007-03-04 08:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by BABY GIRL 3 · 0 2

urgh YES! Stop forcing yourself up on your boy friend!! I wonder how is he tolerating you, no offence. Stop this behavior or you might loose him.. It's not your age though, I'm 18 and I don't feel the need of having sex, it just depends on your own self that's it. Or find someone who's as horny as you all the time. PS. Sorry if I offended anyone. Try doing other stuff with him, like..talking?

2007-03-04 07:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

it is not unusual to have a high drive at 22-wish i were 22 again-lol. he may or may not be gay. he may work long hours or have stress about something.

2007-03-04 08:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 2 0

Well...you are addicted to sex!! lol... get a myspace, so u can be addicted to that! LOL JK!...umm thats not a good thing, because then a guys gonna think ur using him just for that..and thats not good, because i kno a girl wouldnt wanna be known for that..so i dunno,

2007-03-12 05:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by JB. 2 · 0 1

I think that your boyriend is not so good in playing and if he is then you have to find something else to do so that it can keep you bussy and stop thinking about sex.

2007-03-04 08:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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