How's this email/letter to my long-time ex?

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My email to her:
Subject:

I tried to be nice...I even said you could email me your question and I'd gladly answer. By the way, why's it seem like you email me again whenever you get a new boyfriend? But inbetween that and it's nothing. You don't want me as a friend; you want me as a go-to guy; maybe even someone you can play mind games with. But frankly, I'm immuned to that stuff these days. I tried to talk to you as friends last December when Jason said you wanted to talk. And what did you do? You blew me off, saying you never told him any of sorts. Any friends you might've had out here, you burned those bridges a long time ago.

Honestly, you, Dennis, last year...it all feels like a foriegn language to me now. I've long but moved on from you, your drama, and frankly, Dennis's marriage drama too. Cuz honestly, you and Dennis seem perfect for each

other since you both screwed me over royally back in the day. But Dennis at least I can understand, I deserved it from him. I wasn't supportive of his marriage and that's my fault. If I wasn't dealing with you, I would've been a good friend to him like I always was before and we'd still be friends to this day. But of course, that's another thing I lost because of you.

Another thing is, a year + of my life. Honestly, I don't feel like I know you these days and I don't, but I still don't wanna be cruel. However, the truth is, I wish I never called your voicemail with Amanda because then it would've been left at you don't feel the same way and I would've found someone else soon enough. And I would've been spared a lot of bad experiences. Not to mention, I'd still have Dennis' friendship which I miss more than anything else.

How ironic it is you spent so much energy trying to cut me out of your life, getting me to stop calling back in the day, and when it finally happens for several,

several months, the tables turn.

And I don't know if you put Jessica up to talking to me on AIM or if she did it on her own two months ago, but I blocked her after one conversation.

Please don't contact me anymore. I tried so hard last year to move on and get myself back to how I felt before I met you: Happy, friendly, etc. And it finally has happened. I have a new life, new job, new friends, for awhile now, and I don't want anything from last year---especially not you---in my new life. Especially since you screwed me over 100 times in the period of three months.

I finally saw your true colors a long time ago. See, it all became clear to me one rainy day last December...the day I called you to say my goodbyes peacefully after I talked to Jason on AIM and you bitched me out for no reason. A conversation a week before we broke up suddenly came rushing back to me. "(laughing) My friend said this guy Andy at work has a crush on me." [End there] Fast forward three weeks after the

break-up. You're living and dating a guy named, uhm, yes indeed, Andy. You always got so mad if I called you because you needed to see if you and Andy could be anything. And you would've had no problem keeping me at bay while you do that and then coming back after you and Andy didn't work out and playing it as, "Oh I don't need anymore time to myself." Ha. You're so pathetic, cruel, and such a liar it's laughable. And then suddenly that day last December became sunny, as it comfirmed that getting away from you as the best decision I ever made. I just wish it didn't take me a year, one loss of a friendship, and one heck of a mistake of applying to school out there to figure it out.

Just thought I'd let ya know.

June 6th: "I got into Winthrop!" "Oh my god, I can't wait til you're here! I love you!"

July 23rd: "I'm moving out there a week after my birthday, which is Aug, 13th!" "Oh my god, finally!"

July 27th: "I need a break!"

Aug. 6th: "I hope it's us in the end!"

Aug. 7th: "I'm

"I'm taking off you're ring!"

Aug. 11th: "I miss you as I was telling my friend!"

Aug. 24th: "Now it is about the relationship! Stop calling me!"

Aug. 29th: "Is it wrong to live with someone just so you're not alone?"

Sept 5th: "I live with Andy!"

Oct. 2nd: "He cheated on me! I love you, I always have, I felt like I was with the wrong person when with Andy!"

Oct. 6th: "Do you wanna go to the mountains together? I wanna be intimate and have sex again with you!"

Oct 22nd: "You were never my boyfriend again! Did you think you were?" Umm, ohh, my bad. The 'having sex in the mountains must've threw me off! LOL!

Oct. 29th: "I just wanna date random guys and dump them when I get bored!"

Nov. 1st: "I just wanna drink and party and be alone!"

Ahem, bull. See two boyfriends in 5.5 months...Sept - now. HA!

I mean, I always knew you didn't wanna 'be alone', but come on, couldn't you at least TRY to make it less obvious that you're full of crap? You disappoint me.

OK, wasted enough t

time on this. Look, in all honesty, it was fun while it lasted, friends and more, but ANY friendship we had left over died off a LONG time ago and the ship has LONG but SAILED...the one where you can call me up for advice on your boyfriend of the week.

Sorry I'm not your puppet anymore. I finally saw who you are long ago...you're two-faced and a liar, and pathetic. You acted one way when you're out here, like you're so happy, and then out there, "OH no I NEED a break!"

Haha, k, I crack myself up.

Goodbye!

If you haven't sold the ring, send it back to me at:
[My address here.]

Should I ask her back for the ring??

Answer 1

please, if you really want to break all ties you need to put her on 'ignore'... let her email and text all she wants... be strong and delete them, don't answer any of them,,, count your ring as gone and move on... if your telling her your moving on and you keep answering her then she'll keep calling you.. let it go. be Strong and don't answer anything else....then and only then will she get the picture.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

OK, did that make you feel better? I hope so. You go into too much length why you hate her. Just say, " You are a lying, conniving, manipulating, slut, whore leech." That should pretty much get your point across. Don't ask for the ring back, why would you want it? Bad memories. Tell her that if you need a crash course on how to screw someone over, you'll give her a call, but until then leave you alone. There ya go....go ahead and copy and paste.

Answer 4

i think of 2000 words is an essay no longer a letter of love. Why do your mothers and dads disagree? ask your self could it fairly paintings back, I mean there is no longer plenty component going interior the process the midsection smash back if the region hasnt replaced. while me and bf have a controversy and that i'm terrified of loosing him I in simple terms think of of each and every of the excuses why i admire him plenty and why he's so specific to me and tell him. It fairly must be a private subject and are available from the midsection.

Answer 5

don't email her. The ring is gone. Don't answer the phone when it her hey change your number and your email. Let everyone know you have no interest in her and back away from the craziness. Find someone new preferably not from the same nut house you found this one. Responding to her will only give her more fuel to go after you.

Answer 6

Dude, if you've really moved on, then why ask these questions? It's almost like you enjoy the drama. Sorry, but when I move on from a relationship, I just don't look back.

Answer 7

good work. and im glad you've moved on with your life.

Answer 8

damn.....that was a lot of **** to say...... anyway i think it was good.... maybe you can teach me how to write hate letters for my ex.... email me some time..

Answer 9

Drama.....Drama......Drama....... Please make it stop!!!!