why the americans are always trying to make some conversation. It's overwhelming! Don't you understand that other people prefer to be alone in some hour of the day? Besides, why they always invite you to have lunch to "X" place. Can't they eat alone?
2007-03-04 07:47:14 · 11 answers · asked by lobazo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it all depends on what type of Americans you frequent the most because all Americans aren't like that because personally i would say,"Hello" and leave it at that unless you initiated a conversation and i certainly wouldn't be inviting anyone to eat that i barely know anyway. Because everybody usually enjoys time alone be it american or not. Oh and i'm american and have no problem with eating alone if that's the way i feel but i certainly wouldn't bother with people who obvioulsy would like to be left alone.
2007-03-04 07:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I make conversation with people because I am interested in their view or to be friendly. I invite people to dinner because I want to get to know them. I guess that in some countries these actions are foreign but of all the issues that we do have being friendly does not seem like it would be high on the "fix it" list.
By the way if you do not want to socialize or have lunch just say so, I think I can live with the rejection.
2007-03-04 15:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by M B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of Americans enjoy being alone. I am alone all the time. Too alone! I have always been a loner. Don't sterotype Americans as such.
2007-03-04 15:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Americans enjoy the company of people they like...obviously someone likes you although I have no clue why since you are obvioulsy unlikeable. I suggest you go find a cave somewhere (maybe with Bin Laden) and hide from everyone like the coward you are.
2007-03-04 15:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are just a social lot...We like people and have an insatiable appetite for wanting to learn as much as we can about others in other countries...Its fun to get to know people...
2007-03-04 15:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Dixie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am from another culture. Americans are all nice....but they are very diplomatic, even if they don't like you. They can laugh and joke with you and smile and wish you, but that doesn't mean they are on your side. Anyway, no offence to any american please. It's just my personal experience.
2007-03-04 16:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt generalize an say Americans but maybe people are just being friendly? and also, there are way more shy people than very sociable people.
just say No thanks and people will leave u alone.
2007-03-04 15:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Izzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're friendly, not snobs. We like to make everyone feel welcome, if you don't like it just say so, we won't bother you again. We'd be happy to let you be alone if that's what you want.
2007-03-04 15:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think americans are insencere? sometimes. maybe it's just a cultural thing. i'm german and i notice that too....but when they get really mad they can be REALLY mean!!!
2007-03-04 15:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you not sociable?'
Mr. Grinch!
2007-03-04 15:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋